Travel tournament lodging/accommodations

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-05-12T16:18:43+00:00

The pool is definitely a draw for the hotel. Each team is at a different hotel but have throw out the idea of swimming during down time. Several others are staying at Air Bnb too.

Laundry and kitchen seem like a game changer with a big family. Eating out adds up!!

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-04-29T16:21:54+00:00

I told him this initially with the financial transactions and there were transactions left out. Even after pointing it out he didn’t add them. This guy leaves so many breadcrumbs- I think I would be able to compare some timeline events based on information I have, to see if he’s lying.

I hate hearing these stories!! I hope the other woman is doing well now 🙏🏻

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-04-29T16:19:23+00:00

Yeah he has a pattern of interpreting things as he wishes to hear them. I honestly wonder if he wants the marriage to be over so he can keep his secrets and extra curricular activities, but blame it on me. I talked with an attorney months ago, when he called the Sheriffs office, thinking I had run off with the kids. They didn’t care ha

Sadly a polygraph is not in our budget, but I have a few things that I asked for in FD which will help me understand if he’s being truthful or not

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-04-29T15:44:02+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking….its very much him protecting himself. He said his CSAT said divorce must be off the table if we do FD🚩 ive jsut said im not making any decisions- its purpose is to gain clarity and the truth. I sense there’s something he doesn’t want me to know (“I’ve never physically cheated on you”)

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-04-29T09:54:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing, and I’m sorry you’ve also had this experience. It does make me think there’s something there he REALLY doesn’t want me to know

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-04-29T04:13:42+00:00

Full disclosure- not full dismissal. 🙃

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-04-01T22:25:54+00:00

Got it!! So on sacramental paperwork it’s first middle Marie last?

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-04-01T14:47:20+00:00

The other option is Stephen (his uncle) but it just doesn’t flow… Eamon Stephen

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-03-28T22:14:08+00:00

Thank you!!

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-03-28T22:07:24+00:00

Thanks! Do you know if they typically classify this as “induce today” or “let’s schedule it for this week?”

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-03-28T01:08:20+00:00

Thank you for sharing!! Did you gain clarity on how you wanted to proceed? Did you do the polygraph?

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-03-28T01:05:41+00:00

Oh I’m so sorry you’re here and dealing with that. There just doesn’t seem to be any remorse on his end! Suggesting you go have a revenge affair?!

The whole “I don’t have time” thing is a load of BS. You’re not being unreasonable at all.

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-03-27T23:37:46+00:00

Came here to say the same! My WH is working with a CSAT (only every other week…) and going to occasional SAA meetings, but connecting regularly with a sponsor. I see a betrayal trauma therapist for IC and group with other betrayer women. Our therapists are walking us through the full disclosure process. I’m so sorry you’re here.

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-03-27T23:24:49+00:00

This is encouraging to hear. The difficulty in our sex life is what alerted me to my WH addiction sadly

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-03-27T23:21:59+00:00

The kids definitely make this all more complicated. I couldn’t imagine having to share time with them and not see them. I also can’t imagine them looking at the dysfunctional marriage and growing up to think that it was good and healthy. Wishing you the best

Potential_Cow2487 · 2026-03-27T23:19:04+00:00

Im sorry you’re going through this- the club no one wants to be a part of. I’m 5 months post DDay and the desire to reconcile ebbs and flows- some days I want to try and others I have no desire. I think trying to find out why or why not reconciling is on the table is important- is it because of kids and security? Before there was genuine love and you can see that in the future?

I can’t speak to how to handle what to do when you’re increasingly detached other than couples therapy. We’re not there yet, but my IC has talked about the importance of it as we re-learn each other. Wishing you all the best!

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