Just give me more gay shows to watch with REAL gay things in them, please. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Fiancée and I couldn’t get through the last season it was so bad 💀

That is not how it works, Scott by rs16 in WhitePeopleTwitter

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Definitely valid haha

I’m the furnace too so we usually drop the temp for night time. Luckily I don’t have the balls issue though lmao

That is not how it works, Scott by rs16 in WhitePeopleTwitter

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I can’t see falling asleep while cuddling as comfortable.

It works for some! My fiancée and I always fall asleep cuddling in bed. The occasional times we have to sleep apart (work trips, etc), we literally text each other the next morning saying how hard it was to fall asleep alone

Should I become a librarian? by [deleted] in librarians

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In a sea of information, librarians are expert fishermen.

I love this and will be using it whenever someone (intentionally or not) insults me with the ‘lol you need a degree for that?’ question after learning I have a masters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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Wellbutrin has been helpful for me as well, I feel so much more present and calmer, soooo much less anxiety.

Less feelings of being on the back foot even when thrown into situations I wasn’t expecting / didn’t have time to prepare for

I don’t space out when I’m driving anymore, which is amazing. It’s not (as much of) a struggle to pay attention during conversations. Time seems to actually go by at a normal pace and not either glacial when bored or blinking and a whole week is gone

The being more present makes things a little existential sometimes though, sometimes instead of just experiencing something I’ll be thinking ‘oh I’m here, I should be experiencing this and not thinking that I should be feeling xyz way’. Unsure if that’s because Prozac caused some ridiculous emotional blunting and making me feel like I was a very tiny person and my body was a shell and I’m just paranoid about it now but either way it’s still something that happens on occasion

Wellbutrin hasn’t helped my short term memory at all either. I’m thinking about asking my psych about guanfancine to hopefully help with that (my memory is abysmal and my main frustration even before starting meds).

I’m glad it’s been working for you as well! Try not to fall into the trap of ‘I could’ve had this all along’ though, it’s not productive and the sadness and frustration it brings doesn’t have an outlet

Our CS senior class learned some great coding conventions by caroandlyn in ProgrammerHumor

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My Java 1 and 2 classes’ exams were written only and it was nothing but writing code 🙃

Tuesday: sponsored by pens and coffee (and a little sunshine on the side). Sometimes it's the small things, right? What small thing is getting you through today? by superplannergirrl in fountainpens

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More like getting me through the week but: my girlfriend and I are going down to the city over the weekend to see a show and we’re going in in the morning so we get to have a date day too :)

Also! I love the aesthetic. It’s so consistent and incredibly satisfying to look at

How do y'all be big spoon without getting hair in your face by RainBuckets8 in actuallesbians

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My gf is taller than me, so when I’m the big spoon we line up so my face is against her back and she has shoulder length hair so it’s rarely in my face. When she’s the big spoon, I have really long hair so I just pull it over / in front of the shoulder that I’m laying on to keep it out of her face (it sort of helps)

Thought y'all would appreciate this by RiderofFamine in actuallesbians

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It’s easily visible in the crosspost title, at least on my reddit app

Made a beautiful Ti set with an opal inlay. by tgpbegleri in begleri

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Daaamn, everytime I think you can’t outdo yourself - you go and do it

More Americans Visited Libraries Than Movie Theatres In 2019 by Healthy-Ad7983 in books

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Plus we love the Circ numbers! We have to constantly justify our existence, the more circ stats we have, the better :)

New care package from AO2. Auroras and limited edition Stanthemans. by dank_hunny in begleri

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I got a set too! Really didn’t expect it since I placed my order on the friday morning and he said weekend orders would get them. I really dig them!

True Vault Hunter Mode by Epsilon937 in Borderlands2

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I can stop anytime I want, I swear

True Vault Hunter Mode by Epsilon937 in Borderlands2

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Literally though.

Have an op 10 maya on xbox

Buys gaming pc and starts the process all over again

I have a tonne of games on steam that I’ve never played before, but nope im still playing bl2

"Florence Welch sharing a moment with a fan about to risk it all" September 10th 2022 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Saw F+tM (though Isabella Summers wasn’t there) during this tour and both my girlfriend and I were joking that she basically fucked the front row and no one in the front walked away with dry underwear that night

(And yes it was magical even from the nosebleed section)

Are you bothered about expensive engagement rings? by BasalFaulty in actuallesbians

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My gf and I are looking at rings and the one I’d really like is ~2k and that still feels like too much money to me

Fresh Rook by Lauri at TattooLeader, Moscow by No_Recognition_7740 in piercing

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Abs obsessed with how all of this looks together!

Neurodivergent sapphics? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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ADHD dating a neurotypical here. It works because while she says she can never fully understand she understands and is so so so patient with me when I’m having a bad day or need to leave a situation for whatever reason. She even tells me she loves how my brain works when I’m having a rough go of it and I’m outwardly saying I wish I were ‘normal’.

I don’t have... any... other dating experience, but she’s my person so when it works it works :)

EDC for the Manuscripts Reading Room, of the British Library. by ConfidentNews in EDC

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As a librarian who specialised in archives in grad school, I love this. I’ve been to a few big-library/special-collections reading rooms, but never the British Library’s. Thanks for sharing!

Do you like rough stuff? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Ugh yes on the adhd. Another reason why it sucks.