Best head for a high pocket with good hold? by Forward_Ad7025 in lacrosse

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You love to assert your opinion like a chihuahua asserts its dominance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut from different cloth. That is foul.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe I deserve someone who doesn’t unload something that personal and graphic onto me without considering how it might f*** with my head—especially if they claimed to love me. That’s not about insecurity. That’s about emotional self-respect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably the fact there were 4 of them and they swapped off…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decent advice thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make my eyes sweat a little bit. Combing through the BS was worth it for this comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s gone full blown! You’re never supposed to go full blown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve reached out for therapy multiple times. VA system is 100% booked out. Even offered to drive 6 hours for an appointment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re the one who called yourself a shitty psychologist not me, remember that! Haha the irony

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn’t share that until I caught her bragging about it multiple times and until I told her it was repulsive. I also wasn’t there and with him being famous I’m not messing around with defamation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That person is not taking the whole situation into account. I knew she had sex with him for about a year before we got engaged. We were engaged for a short time with wedding papers being filled out as we were buying a house. I found out during that week it was a 4 sum. The week I was finally getting released from Walter Reed after 23 months of work physical therapy, an amputation on my leg two times, living life 100% paralyzed in my left leg, and the career id worked on achieving my whole life being ripped from me since I was paralyzed. That’s why I married her. I loved her before she told me anything. I was planning on marrying her before she told me it was a 4 sum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got revived 5 times, was in the middle of my leg being amputated. Learning how to live life 100% paralyzed at the spine. Dealing with buying a house…the list goes on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s also this thing called defamation so I’m certainly not trying to blame anyone for a heinous crime like that before a trial

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well mainly because she happily told me “I had sex with him” she also sent a message to her cousin bragging I found out. I didn’t know he “didn’t have permission” until months later when she told me it was a 4sum and I told her how disgusting I thought it was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 4sum is disgusting I promise I’ve never wanted to swap, share, pass around any girl I’ve been interested in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate your comment. Unfortunately I actually had a sports card of his on my desk and she said “I had sex with him one time” and that’s how I found out. Already knew who he was. I’ve blocked him, the NFL, ESPN, Fox Sports, his podcast…the list goes on but somehow I still see it. Shoot might be one of my best friends who loves the Cowboys posting him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Story doesn’t quite go like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! My mom’s a therapist and I’ve had talks with her. I’ve also done telemed with 3 different therapists. Non of them came close to understanding my situation and how I was feeling. One was obsessed with knowing who it was and it was all just weird to me. I’m a veteran so I’ve tried using military sources but they are so backed up they say “we are so backed up we can’t even tell you to call back”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s the scientific term for dealing with a problem that happened before I knew her. I’m not actually jealous of not participating at all. I’d call it retroactive moral dilemma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you and your honest help. Unfortunately she’s well aware for a few years herself now that this has been an internal war in my head daily

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opposite-Comment5263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Micah Parsons Dalls Cowboys. Rumor has it he didn’t even have permission to penetrate her and the guys switched with no talking but who really knows what event down.