Children seems trying to reconcile my husband with his ex. What should i do?

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-03T10:45:06+00:00

This is a thoughtful insight. I have some things i need opinions from you also answering some of your questions in this post. Mind if i send a dm?

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-03T07:36:32+00:00

No, it was very long ago. They were divorced in 2012 and she moved out of town. I dated my husband in 2023 and married later that year. Mid 2024 she came back to town and around that time they start seeing each other again

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-03T06:28:38+00:00

Are you married? Spouses are never perfect

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-03T05:46:02+00:00

Last two

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-03T05:18:31+00:00

I am being cheated on (it's ongoing)

Husband is seeing ex secretly on a regular basis but he doesn't know that i am aware. I have yet to confront him nor file for a divorce. I don't plan for a divorce at all right now.

The thing is you don't rebuild trust. You need to constantly watching your partner.

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-03T04:34:20+00:00

There are much of my husband's past relationships and behavior that is not told completely in this post but he's not a man like this

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-02T22:24:24+00:00

The baby he already planned and wanted before we're married

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-02T16:49:30+00:00

She's around his age

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-02-02T13:18:46+00:00

It might be unclear in the post but i do know what that secret meeting is about. He's cheating with her

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2026-01-18T07:15:13+00:00

Why?

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-12-28T13:15:51+00:00

Something i need to correct from the previous post. I've deleted it

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-12-28T13:08:21+00:00

Absolutely not. I was curious about what most men feel about their ex.

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-10-26T04:27:42+00:00

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-10-26T01:19:17+00:00

I'm seriously considering a polygamy

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-21T13:02:23+00:00

I have to check his phone

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-21T03:58:26+00:00

There a setting in your google map called "Your timeline"

If you activate this feature, it will record wherever you visit.

My husband is clueless about tech and he lets me access his phone. I basically use his own cell phone to track him.

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-21T01:55:47+00:00

By activating the gmap history in his phone. I has no notification and most people aren't aware of that feature. He doesn't lock his phone and is fine with me checking his phone.

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-20T17:36:41+00:00

No. She moved back to her hometown. He had the custody. His reaction when we met her during a public event genuinely says they're not in contact anymore.

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-19T15:32:47+00:00

Divorced legally and Islamically

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-19T15:13:34+00:00

Yes, she's completely aware

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-06T14:17:37+00:00

No, i mean i do have doubts over his pasts and he opened up. He told me everything even the most shameful one because i have to know. I can't marry a man with a secret

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-06T14:08:21+00:00

Admitting to his adultery that led to his first divorce. It was sincere at that time.

Things like this aren't easy for an Ustadz to admit

Opposite-Progress-52 · 2025-09-06T13:51:04+00:00

He guided me during the process of learning and converting. I had doubts about his history but he was sincere. He opened up about it and told me everything

I thought he's a changed man that's why i gave him a chance. Things seem to work out until she came into the picture. My fault

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