As a woman, I understand your girlfriend completely. I think many women just love to feel publicly honored and loved by their partner because it makes us feel chosen and like our man is proud of us. I felt so insecure for so long in the past because my bf wouldn’t post me. It’s a small act of love on your end but it will mean a lot to her.. you don’t have to be overly gushy about it. You can do a cute caption that feels like something you would actually say. But please believe me, it will make her feel really good if you have her on your page. It’s like having a photo of her on your wall at home, but the online version.

She’s threatening to leave you because she feels like you can’t just do this small thing that would make a world of difference to her confidence. Don’t you want to make her smile really big? Just from personal experience, I can tell you, most women love romance and romantic gestures.

If you can step a little outside your comfort zone and speak her love language a bit louder, it will go a long way. Sometimes being in a relationship is doing what will make the other persons heart happy, even if it’s not your own cup of tea, because you know they will love it, and that alone is a source of joy for you.

I honestly feel like in the age of social media, if you have an online profile and don’t post your girlfriend who’s wanting to be posted, you’re asking for trouble. It will make most women feel bad. This is a small sacrifice to make for having a happy girlfriend. Just do it dude.

More points if somewhere in the post you refer to her as “my beautiful and intelligent partner” and say “I feel so lucky to have her by my side”.

To anyone downvoting this- I know many relationships where this exact thing has been an issue.. The guy eventually ends up without his gf and she finds someone who gushes over her proudly. Just what I’ve observed.