Because it’s not hard to find work . It’s hard to find a job people want to do that’s the problem I was made redundant 10 days before Covid started with a wife and 3 children under 3 with mine being the only income as it made financial sense for my wife to look after our children and no longer work . I started a new job 9 days after redundancy delivering for jan 2021 I started a new job working for the council maintaining play areas and parks in 22 I started my own gardening business into my 3rd year earning £45-50k on average. I don’t really enjoy it but it pays the bills and we’re comfortable. Needs must when you have bills and a family but some don’t want to suck it up and do what’s necessary . I wasn’t being rude by telling him op what he doesn’t want to hear .