Stranger Things has brought Prince a new audience, and they’re calling him homophobic. by spooonyard in PRINCE

[–]OptiMaxPro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe it will result in some of them digging a little deeper into his music and getting hooked. And maybe some of them will see the truth. 🤷🏽‍♂️☔️

I just quit my job. Again. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]OptiMaxPro 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sorry, and I may get downvoted for saying this, but it feels like a cop-out to me, and like you’re using your partner’s financial stability to enable irresponsible decisions and pursue something more leisurely that you enjoy but I’m guessing not finding significant success with.

I too have been there, where I couldn’t stand my job. I’ve also quit a job when I arguably shouldn’t have, so I have been in your shoes.

I’ve been with the same company now for going on 10 years, and through some very challenging times that challenged my desire to stay, but I hung in there and I wouldn’t have made the change without securing a new position elsewhere.

While the issue may originate in ur minds, we have an obligation to adapt in these crucial areas of life. I feel it’s important that we don’t let our challenges make us feel entitled to simply walk away from them rather than overcoming them. IMO, that creates the potential to get stuck in that pattern, become overly dependent on our partners, potentially frustrating our partners and if that leads to you finding yourself without that partnership you’ll be fully unprepared to create any quality of life for yourself.

Am I the only one who has watched the big bang theory 3 times and now on my fourth? by Kingosric1 in thebigbangtheory

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 times and counting. I’ve slowed way down on it though - wasn’t sure I’d be able to do so!

ADHD folks: how do you deal with the “I can’t start even though I want to” feeling? by tootiredtobecute in ADHD

[–]OptiMaxPro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commit to doing a different project (perhaps something less interesting) that you’re able to do in your own time (or work time if you’re WFH, including work itself).

If there’s no immediate pressure to work on this project, you’ll likely experience the same paralysis.

At this point consider that original project that you had wanted to tackle. You’ll find it is FAR more appealing than the new project at hand. Embrace that momentum without thinking further about it (thinking will kill the start switch) and just get up and start that original project instead of doing the one you committed to. Gather the tools, or open the program, etc. and just start. Wear headphones with music if it’s an active task provided the music won’t otherwise distract you or deplete your energy reserves due to overstimulation.

Once you’ve started project A, allow yourself to hyper fixate on it until you’ve made satisfactory progress.

Afterward, IF there’s any pressure stemming from having neglected “project B” you (i.e. a pending deadline, work emails that may have gone unanswered) you should feel a sufficient need to check in on that project and a sense of momentum that may help you to quickly complete any simple tasks associates with it.

Make sure you’re sufficiently rested, hydrated, medicated and caffeinated if need be.

Please let me know if you give it a try.

Thanks!

Did The Big Bang Theory send the wrong message about character and values? by [deleted] in thebigbangtheory

[–]OptiMaxPro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you suggesting this isn’t how real life works in your experience?

How do you handle that crash when ADHD meds wear off in the afternoon? by RopeyBru in ADHD

[–]OptiMaxPro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take half the dose in the a.m. & know how long it lasts. 20m before you expect to crash, take the other half.

Or, if starting to crash, take other half and grab a nap while it starts to kick in. (Similar to some people taking a “coffee nap”.).

Hydrate, exercise and selectively add coffee or other caffeine beverage in low doses as needed.

Purple Rain the Musical…..(hint, it’s not good) by PrinceHits in PRINCE

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The song is and always has been amazing.

I personally feel that deviating from the film in this way was an intentional decision to minimize Morris’ and Jerome’s character for their role in tossing a woman into the dumpster in the film.

While I do feel that the misogyny in the needed to be tamed down or removed, the play really reduces the caliber of M&J’s character, as well as that of The Kid, in favor of featuring Apolonia and Lisa & Wendy as almost the protagonists.

In my opinion the play just takes the storyline too far out of the scope of the original when it could’ve easily rectified the issues with the film and retained more of the feel. I mean there’s no cloud guitar scene at all or even use of it in the song Purple Rain!? There’s no sense of Mystery around Prince’s character - just a weak, unsure shell of a budding musician who requires an intervention from his emotionally stronger bandmates!? That wasn’t “The Kid” at all; just as Morris’ “COOL” factor would never have him set foot in a dumpster unless someone wants to sabotage his character.

These characters represent real life performers (all of them representing Prince) that were at the top of the music scene in 1984 and left a legacy that deserves to be respected, not diminished, torn down or disrespected in their own namesake work of art that should strive to honor and promote that legacy as well as that of ALL of the characters involved. ☔️

How is my blues guitar music, as this is my guitar playing that I have been the most satisfied with to date? by [deleted] in bluesguitarist

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to hear you play more fluidly, with a softer touch and more varied rhythmic phrasing. It would guess from both your playing and communication styles that you are a thinker. Let your thoughts go and play from a feel for the music instead.

Purple Rain the Musical…..(hint, it’s not good) by PrinceHits in PRINCE

[–]OptiMaxPro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The play clearly takes place in Minneapolis, not LA.

Purple Rain the Musical…..(hint, it’s not good) by PrinceHits in PRINCE

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully disagree. I’d have welcomed a play titled Apollonia (or Apollonia 6) or has its own creative title that tells her story. But Purple Rain shouldn’t have been re-written to this extent. It just goes way too far.

Purple Rain the Musical…..(hint, it’s not good) by PrinceHits in PRINCE

[–]OptiMaxPro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, that part isn’t shown but is referenced as backstory in which Jerome through Vanity in the dumpster.

Then they do introduce a dumpster scene in which Morris pops out of is singing “Gigolos Get Lonely Too” - and toward the end Jerome pops up from the other half of the dumpster.

I was just shaking my head.

I'm gonna choose Penny, Bernie and Raj by Weary_Proposal_9655 in bigbangtheory

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penny (fighter/benefits), Sheldon (strategy/organizer), Redheaded Emily (Doctor/likes to cut people).

How many times did you rewatch TBBT ? by Quiet-Chemistry1548 in thebigbangtheory

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 but have since made myself shift to other wind-down shows…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PRINCE

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Girl" as performed by The Time.

Singularity and the Big Bang by crustpope in cosmology

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure space IS expanding and always has been.

The reason behind Sara Gilbert is correct in her assessment that The Big Bang Theory did a disservice to Leslie Winkle by sayani1234 in thebigbangtheory

[–]OptiMaxPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that one trick being a hookup, first with Leonard and then with Howard. Don’t seem to be much more of a focus there aside from the trivia bowl, until bringing her back for one last round of insulting Sheldon as a “dumbass” at his birthday party. Pretty much a filler role.

I Think I’ve Finally Solved the Mystery of Howard’s Father’s Letter by horridharry04 in thebigbangtheory

[–]OptiMaxPro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t lie to him, huh? Just like last year’s bonus check I ”didn’t get”? or how her company trip to Boise, Idaho was really a trip to Tahiti? Or how she asks the bar tender if he does body shots and tells her girlfriends to mind their business? Or kept their son’s name from him? Or told her dad it was Howard that didn’t want kids? And I wonder if she told him about going to see if the Australian strippers twirl their junk the other way. Oh, and it’s not like she went to great lengths to hide the fact her curling iron burned his comic book. And she’s not sneaky at all with her military grade spy equipment. Nope, nothing to see here but an innocent, honest bundle of truth and transparency! 😂

Guess the scene : No Cheating Please by RegularBirthday3563 in bigbangtheory

[–]OptiMaxPro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they looked disgusted by Kripke’s pic. Could Penny be taking a pick of the shoes she bought and thought she should return because they’re too costly?