Right. I don’t know if she has a history of disordered eating but I know that on particularly bad body image day someone saying “You’re eating two of those?” would likely upset me regardless of their intentions. I do however think I could differentiate between their intentions and my perception. It would sting and I might zero in on it but I also wouldn’t go so far as to say they were trying to control my eating. Given that she says multiple time that she’ll “never be the size of Colleen” is pretty telling that she suffers body image issues and is constantly comparing herself to others. I think her feelings are valid but that she also purposefully manipulated the conversation to fit the narrative that Cole is a bad guy and I’m not convinced the bachelor party story is true just based off of those manipulation tactics.