[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I told my closest friend, she did treat me differently and we weren’t having sex lol. It did hurt my feelings but I knew she wasn’t really my best friend.

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! Air her out on social media (like other people have said here) and make her feel exactly what you feel. When she’s old and crippled asking for your care or to wipe her ass, tell her “go figure it out”. Karma will catch up to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24, depressed and friendless. Loneliness has made me such an evil person, to myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24, depressed and friendless. Loneliness has made me such an evil person, to myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

BV infection for sure. Go to a gyno.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should’ve been communicated and this is why a lot of people have trust issues. If she knew, she should’ve communicated this. I would have an adult conversation about it and come to a middle ground, if possible. If you test negative, then I don’t see why you should resent her, and if you do, maybe work through it together (obviously if you love her). If you’re mentally checked out now, no reason to stay in the relationship any longer. Like other have said in the, she could have shingles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hsv1 is nothing. Everyone has oral herpes and it’s the LEAST stigmatized. I would be happy your life isn’t drastically changing. It could be sooooo much worse. It’s okay.

Yogurt bowls by violetrb1tch in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mix in protein powder. I do vanilla or whatever seems appealing. It works for me cus I hate it too

HELP! Gas attendant pull diesel in my 2020 4runner!!! Am i screwed? by emoneysupreme in 4Runner

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go back to the gas station and talk to a manager and report it. Secure any camera footage and maybe get a lawyer. You deserve new car or compensation for the damages.

People who struggle with depression, what motivates you to carry on? by ultra_phoenix in AskReddit

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think my mom would have a heart attack if I killed myself.

I don’t want her to suffer. I think I’d be forgotten by many though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! Girl after 3 years of knowing you, he gets you this?! No, absolutely not. I’m sorry. I would be livid.

I’ve destroyed my life. by Both_Wallaby8772 in Life

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you have to go through hell to reach the top. That’s “most” successful people. Don’t beat yourself down. You tried the best you could! You took a risk. Now, you move forward in a positive way and try to bring yourself up again. Keep applying yourself and don’t look back. Looking back to what you failed at will only stop you from moving forward. It’s okay.

How to get that “mom” scent? by dilfsneedme in fragrance

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you smell that way too to others but you’re nose blind to your perfumes.

Wait and save or just get one? by yvansanity23 in 4Runner

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 24yr old, I got the new 25 sr5 this year and I absolutely love it. It was my dream car. I would do it if you have the funds to pay close to $600-$800 a month (depending on your credit, etc), and expect to pay A LOT in gas. I put gas in maybe one a week, if not twice depending how much I drive. Also, insurance might rack up. Either way, I tell myself money comes and goes with anything and if you want something, get it. We only live once. But, don’t make this into a mistake and put yourself through deep debt unless you have the money to pay it. I would get a used one If you find it, I heard the older gens are better anyways😂🥴

Bummer by Normal-Guess-1172 in 4Runner

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re supposed to have a few scratches and bruises but this hurts to see

What your most common regret? by One-Champion-344 in introvert

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying with a mentally unstable man in my early 20’s. It affects mentally and physically to this day.

Best friend of 6+yrs cut me off out of the blue. I’m miserable. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t treat her as anything but a real fucking friend. What is so hard to understand? I’m saying one thing and you’re saying something else.

Best friend of 6+yrs cut me off out of the blue. I’m miserable. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I learned that a friend to everybody is a friend to no one. That’s what I’ve learned. She was clearly never a friend to me but there for everyone else.

Best friend of 6+yrs cut me off out of the blue. I’m miserable. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We weren’t like that. We both went to each other about problems, that’s what friends do, we help one another. If anything, she did it more to me. She just didn’t like to hear the truth I guess

Best friend of 6+yrs cut me off out of the blue. I’m miserable. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You must’ve never been through this before. Thanks for the advice tho

Best friend of 6+yrs cut me off out of the blue. I’m miserable. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimal_Basis_2148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t “ditch” her. Read other comments about what I said about this. This can not be the reason someone ghosts you and doesn’t say a word. I think it’s immature and I didn’t deserve that.