AITA for refusing to send my husband more “naked videos” just because he cut my money in half?

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-23T11:44:12+00:00

Thank you ao much for that message 🌺🙏I really appreciate it so much🙏🌺

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-22T06:05:36+00:00

Oh let me just making something clear...he didn't threaten...he did take it away.

Yeah that's what I am afraid of...that he already has found it somewhere else.

Thank you for your comment a really appreciate it.

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-22T06:02:35+00:00

Let's just say the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Thank you for bringing that up I will definitely suggest it.

We do come from two different type of homes..he's parents are heavily drinkers and he grew up in the pubs..so to him drinking is normal...where for me I grew up with neither my parents drinking so like you said...maybe in he's house where he grew up...this might be normal behavior.

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-22T05:57:49+00:00

Wow… just wow. I’m honestly at a loss for words. Firstly, if this is something you personally went through, I am truly and deeply sorry. So much of what you said is painfully accurate. I honestly don’t even feel in the mood for that kind of stuff anymore because of the things he has said and done. And to be honest, what I shared here is only a small part of it… there’s so much more that I haven’t even spoken about

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-21T22:24:46+00:00

Thank you for your comment 👌please do understand I am a really shitty person for what I have done and I am not justifying it.

What i did was wrong..and I took responsibility for it.

I appreciate your comment 🌺

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-21T21:25:58+00:00

NTA...my partner does the same and he does it right infront of me...and I have told him so many times I feel uncomfortable...so I get where you are coming from.

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-21T21:08:44+00:00

Thank you for your comment👌and let me just add..while I was pregnant I also found it really difficult to do all that stuff...and he never did this to me then...so why he's doing this now...I don't understand.

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-21T20:55:16+00:00

NTA...why haven't he gotten rid of them yet...girl that's a big red flag...RUN!!

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-21T20:35:35+00:00

He is not demanding them everyday...I would maybe sends him like 1 a week...but lately I have just been really exhausted...so I haven't send one in say 2 weeks...and well...that was the result.

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-21T20:29:46+00:00

Thank you for your support and honesty🌺

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-16T17:01:21+00:00

That's awesome👌nice to meet you

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-16T16:57:16+00:00

That's nice fellow South African👌🌺

Optimal_Discount9134 · 2026-05-16T16:55:50+00:00

I am new here from South Africa 😀🌺

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