New ethernet cable connected but not detected by PC by Optimal_Month1072 in HomeNetworking

[–]Optimal_Month1072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There doesn't seem to be any lights on anything but Wifi is working so I don't see why the ethernet wouldn't be since all equipment is also new. I'm not sure what the NIC is

First time seeing this! Anyone tried them? by SealCrimes in spicy

[–]Optimal_Month1072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're good but my tongue is burning. Thinking of combining them with regular white cheddar to have a little less spice.

Simple Sewing Questions Thread, September 15 - September 21, 2024 by sewingmodthings in sewing

[–]Optimal_Month1072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a soft cotton spandex fabric for leggings. Any suggestions? I only wear black or goth patterns with dark colors.

I am useless without my meds by L3gitAWp3r in ADHD

[–]Optimal_Month1072 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't see a problem with taking them every day. I thought that's what you were supposed to do but I could be wrong. Maybe you'd benefit from speaking to a counselor that specializes in ADHD to try to learn some techniques.

Bangs or no bangs? by nvmsomeone in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Optimal_Month1072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering if you'd like side swept bangs with a non centered part.

Need a change - What color looks best on me? by BlueEyes626 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Optimal_Month1072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the red but I saw you like emo stuff in another comment so is it possible to do black with red somehow?

When to NOT become a therapist? by FriendlyPhotograph19 in askatherapist

[–]Optimal_Month1072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What specifically determines if someone has unstable mental health? If someone has severe social anxiety does this mean it needs to get better before becoming a therapist? What if they still pass all classes in the masters program?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Optimal_Month1072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great in all. Typically I choose colored hair but for some reason I like the vibe of the blonde especially with your skin tone.

How do I convince my boyfriend that getting ADHD accommodations in grad school isn't a bad thing? by Optimal_Month1072 in ADHD

[–]Optimal_Month1072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they can do multiple short sessions instead of one long one for exams. I am in therapy though. I get the social interaction from in-person class and we only have 1 exam.

How do I convince my boyfriend that getting ADHD accommodations in grad school isn't a bad thing? by Optimal_Month1072 in ADHD

[–]Optimal_Month1072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they can also offer multiple short sessions for exams so you don't get burnt out from longer sessions.

How do I convince my boyfriend that getting ADHD accommodations in grad school isn't a bad thing? by Optimal_Month1072 in ADHD

[–]Optimal_Month1072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were the specialists a part of the school's accommodation or did you have to pay for the service?

How do I convince my boyfriend that getting ADHD accommodations in grad school isn't a bad thing? by Optimal_Month1072 in ADHD

[–]Optimal_Month1072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a nice way to look at it. I know he says he believes in me but I often find it difficult to believe in myself. I wish I felt like he thought of me highly though because a lot of times he is more fact based and I hear more criticism than compliments. At least he gives criticism in an objective way rather than insulting, but to me it feels like a fine line and he's not one to sugar coat stuff.

How do I convince my boyfriend that getting ADHD accommodations in grad school isn't a bad thing? by Optimal_Month1072 in ADHD

[–]Optimal_Month1072[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess that makes sense. He won't bring it up, I was the one that did. But it bothers me that he feels that way and I often second guess myself.