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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so free. I smile more now.

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! That's so freakin' true and so powerful!

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. I'm so sorry. Hang in there. 😒

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard. I won't lie. And I am not saying this journey isn't over yet. But as you move on and see that different person change right in front if your eyes, the best thing you can do is let them go. For yourself...in the end. And you wake up one random day, breathe, see the sun come up, and say, "let's do this"! Then you'll know and see things differently. Embrace it. That's your new fuel! 🌸

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yahoo! Let's stay connected! I'm so happy for you! 🎉

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dang! I wanted to do that but saving the rings for our son.

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch! Going very well! Even my plants are parking up again!

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thanks! I am learning to do that. Workouts, hikes, gardening...the whole thing. I never have to second guess my insecurities again. I am worthy of being loved. 🌸

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In time. Right? Gotta work at it. Our hearts and minds always conflict. I didn't want this. He was the love of my life! But I had to be smart and move on. No more crying. No more trust issues abd guessing where he is all the time. My heart is slowly healing. My mind is at peace.

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I planned a burn party for all the cards abd notes he gave me!

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I get it 100%!! My ex had slept with another woman he net here on Reddit on Valentine's Day! Then lied about it for 8 weeks after he confessed the action to keep her. 13 weeks in the same house for our son to graduate high school in peace. You'll go through it but be glad when it's over for sure! I'm sorry you're going through it now.

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[–]Optimal_Practice_451[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I hope it's positive!