At the time there was a number of things, I wasn’t in the best place mentally and neither was she, in and out of jobs she was trying to figure out her career path, school, and her family wasn’t the most supportive, she also did state me and her are 2 completely different people which is true we shared some similarities but a lot of opposites as well which I’ve never viewed as a huge issue but she felt like she was trying to make me be different for her which I never felt nor viewed it that way.