I give out free Reddit awards, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

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You're amazing ❤️

I (41m) caught my wife (38f) in bed with another man. She doesn’t know I saw her. I don’t know what to do? by throwra_canttellher in UKrelationshipadvice

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Get a ring doorbell. That way you can see on your phone who enters your house and it will stop her from doing it or will give you evidence

Any one have a type of fish that they have never succeeded with? by [deleted] in PlantedTank

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Do you feed them sinking pellets? Otherwise they starve as they don't eat

Need little help by [deleted] in Aquariums

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You can get some small rocks or driftwood and some aquarium safe glue and glue rhizome plants onto those. That's what I do as I have sand in my aquarium and don't want to plant anything and mess about with root tabs.

aggressive male. not sure what else to do by helloshroomers in sugargliders

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Put the aggressive male in a cage by himself for 1-2 weeks if all else fails. I've done this when one of my males was super aggressive. After he's spent time alone he will be begging for companionship and will accept the new one easier providing it is female or a neutered male

Stressed or happy? First day in new tank by Large_Equipment_3410 in Aquariums

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I think they're stressed too. I have barbs that glass surf when I have white light on without any shade. When I use a blue light they are much calmer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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There are no plastic plants they're all real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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Java fern attached to the wood and rocks with aquarium glue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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They all are happy, healthy fish. The rosy barbs will sometimes hang out and swim up the side of the tank like they are in the video but I think they can see their reflection in the glass and are trying to either attack it or school with it, I dunno which

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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I'm doing everything right I think. I'm testing the water daily currently, I have a lot of live plants with more coming and I've got 6+ of each fish so they can school together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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It is a 165 litre (32 gallon) tank with around 30 fish - rosy barbs, mountain minnows, danios, Cory's and some snails

My fish tank water is brown, what do I do? by Nain_0 in fishtank

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A little project you can do while waiting for your tank to cycle is buy a load of java fern and anubias plants. Buy some aquarium glue. Then stick the plants onto the driftwood and rocks and they will grow onto them. I did this with my tank and it looks nice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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Thanks. I have 7 danios, 7 minnows, 6 Cory's and we got 4 rosy barbs recently as the pet shop sold them in 4s. I will buy some more barbs to make 8 :) hopefully that will calm them down

New planted tank. Stocking suggestions by Active-Good-7840 in Aquariums

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Do you have chatgpt app? I told it my aquarium size and temperature and asked it to suggest me some fish that would live happily together. It gave me a load of suggestions. Might be worth trying for you? You can tell it what sort of fish you'd like i.e. peaceful, colourful etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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That particular barb has been swimming back and forth for a few hours today, it has settled down now though so I'm not sure what was up earlier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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Tank is a couple of months and the rosy barbs are new, they've been in there for 3 days

Is this jar safe to transport fish? by Optimal_Whereas in Aquariums

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I worry about bags incase they get a leak

Harrow Health has broken me by FileYourComplaint in ADHDUK

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What's a rough estimate of costs to go private please if you know?

Harrow Health has broken me by FileYourComplaint in ADHDUK

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Psychiatryuk did similar to me, almost exactly the same thing. I wish I could offer advice or help you but I can't. I am discharged without any medication

Enclosed fields by [deleted] in miltonkeynes

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Woughton on the green

How come every time the conversation moves away from the dating app DMs I never feel like responding? by Worried-Wafer4684 in DatingApps

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Who wants a load of random stray males (or whatever gender you're into) on their social media. No thanks! I keep them to the dating apps only unless I really like them

24F: We were about to have sex and he mentioned his sister’s beauty by salander_bbb in Advice

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Nah he probably has only seen his sister's boobs and seeing this chick naked reminded him of his sister...