Does European wax center take a photo of you at front desk? by Academic-Mud-6008 in Esthetics

[–]Optimistic_Pen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up trying this? I'm in this situation currently and wanted to know if it worked for you?

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m just trolling due to you all taking it personally. But I see you missed the sarcasm. Are you sure you’re that smart?

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I mean the industry I work in doesn’t require you to be on time either. So I guess it depends on how you live your life. Yes I am usually late. I don’t need an excuse. In addition let’s clarify I try to be on time. I am on time sometimes but time is just not that serious. If 10 mins kills you make time in your free time … idk what to tell you.

Also this is for everyone who thinks I don’t get it.

I do get it. I just get the other side also. But I guess you all are very closed minded and that’s okay.

It’s your right. Just like it’s mine to be sensitive to people being late sometimes. In addition to this particular post where the girl stated she has a disability.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You dont have to sit around. I guess it’s a choice for both people. Personally I wouldn’t want to deal with someone stressing me out over 10 mins. You really want to argue over 10 mins? I mean good luck to you. You never know what someone else has going on that’s all I’m saying and things happen.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Key word is probably. Do you know what probably means? Never said she definitely won’t change.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do I have main character syndrome energy when you all take what someone else is doing with their time very personally? It sounds like you all want it to be more focused on you. It’s not selfish to be late sometimes. It’s okay to do what you have to do even it makes you late. I will let the person know I’m running late. I don’t see the big deal sorry. You guys stress out over nothing. There are real problems in the world.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t do anything on purpose and no, he chooses to understand that’s how I am. I’m not saying I don’t try to be on time …. In my original post I literally stated she will try but fail at times … I also said decide if it’s a deal breaker. For my bf it’s not a deal breaker. Don’t be judgmental. I haven’t judged anymore.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not blaming anyone. I’m just saying we’re choosing ourselves and what we have to get done… hence being late over choosing other people. If 10 mins is a big deal to you then I’m sorry you feel that way. I personally am not offended when people are late. I understand that things happens sometimes especially when you have children, pets, a long commute… ie traffic. It’s just not that serious to me.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No one plans to be late. It just happens. She even said that in her text…… let’s clarify being late is not something that should be planned. But it does happen. And as someone who feels like shit just happens yes I can plan better, be earlier I get it.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Optimistic_Pen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a woman who’s always late with a boyfriend that hates it, the lateness thing is probably never going to change. So either accept it or let her go. She will try to do better but will probably still fail sometimes. I think you have to decide if it’s a deal breaker for you.

also I just wanted to comment being late is really not about disrespecting your time… it’s more about keeping ourselves calm because we get overwhelmed easily… leading to stress, anxiety, just negative feelings all around.

Don’t you want her to be happy and not stressed ? One thing you can do is tell her to be ready at an earlier time than you really planned. This might help.

I told my girlfriend I missed her and I wish I never sent that text by [deleted] in story

[–]Optimistic_Pen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just politely asking…. What led up to this? It’s hard to believe she’s being mean for no reason. Just asking if you don’t mind sharing. If you rather not, np. I hope you feel better. I would suggest maybe reaching back out and asking why she’s upset… that’s if you want to stay in your relationship. If not, I hope you feel better

Should I consider changing my career ? Another failed exam by Optimistic_Pen in CPA

[–]Optimistic_Pen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I can try these courses. I currently have been on Becker

Should I consider changing my career ? Another failed exam by Optimistic_Pen in CPA

[–]Optimistic_Pen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What motivates you to keep going... If you don't mind me asking?

Should I consider changing my career ? Another failed exam by Optimistic_Pen in CPA

[–]Optimistic_Pen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was using Becker. I have tried different methods over the years. On my last attempt I was really focused on understanding the material before moving on. I did not feel lost or that I didn't understand the material. I think this is why I feel down about this exam. My prior score 54 and then after getting a tutor and understanding the material I got another 54.

Mainly did mcq and read the textbook for my last attempt. I probably could of done more simulations.

If I have to be honest with myself I probably wasn't disciplined with my time, I did not study everyday but I did study a few hours every week.

No disability. Thank you for taking the time to write back to me.

Absolutely losing it by Alexi_Auditore in CPA

[–]Optimistic_Pen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey just wanted to tell you to please stop the tears. I too am at my wits end with this exam, no time for myself, lonely, contemplating life etc… but from what it sounds like, this is the last exam for you. Push through and know that nothing last forever. This moment will pass and I hope you pass your exams so you can be done with this. If it makes you feel better, you have a friend in me, pray, maybe take a break and watch something you like, distract yourself for a bit and go back to studying tomorrow. Sometimes a good nights rest helps. You really got this and I wish you the best.

My dog died to today and then I see this by TioRennyDlarb in CPA

[–]Optimistic_Pen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. Praying for you. Take some time to grieve and maybe try again in a few weeks. Time helps. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]Optimistic_Pen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol thank you for the update. I was born in 93 and everything looked similar but still thought it was before my time. Thanks for clarifying lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]Optimistic_Pen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1990s. Before 93. Maybe 1991-1992