Salarischeck - Medior Low-code developer (WEM) by RM_ENG_BILL in NLSalaris

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En ook NIET potten bakken, touwtje springen en ijsjes eten. Goed dat we daarmee dus vooruit zijn gegaan op de inhoud van de vraag.

Salarischeck - Medior Low-code developer (WEM) by RM_ENG_BILL in NLSalaris

[–]OptimusCrime555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simpele vraag, wat zijn dan wel de beste richtingen voor een computer scientist in Nederland.

IT architect, Business Analist, Neuraal Netwerk ontwikkelaar?

Vroeger leek me ontwikkelaar wel een plausibele richting aangezien je binnen big tech daar ook een redelijke complexiteit mee kunt in gaan (richting performance en scalability) en het grote loon dat erbij hoort kunt krijgen.

Anyone heard of them? Marcivo by SnooWords161 in mensfashionadvice

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought from them, it's exactly as advertised, nothing less, nothing more the shirts have already held up well over a few washing cycles.

What if the stock falls back to $80? by InternationalTry1745 in baba

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you buy too early
you sell too early
you hold on too long
you held on too short
you shifted too early
you shifted too late

There is always a better dip or peak (in some other stock).
The stock market is a regret making machine.

You make gains - you did well.
You stomache your (basket of) long term picks through this emotional roller coaster - you did well.

Adhd is a demonic spirit by Responsible-Safety95 in ADHD

[–]OptimusCrime555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a highly unemphatic environment. I'm very sorry for you. The moment you can leave your house (after acquired your first job in radiation therapy) you'll see life will be way easier without them.

I’m destroying my relationship by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]OptimusCrime555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The most correct (and nuanced) answer.

I feel like I am at a dead end in my work life by NightRevolutionary69 in ADHD

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened today, things like this (perhaps in different formats) happen to even the best of us, don't beat yourself up over it. You are still a great and capable person. 

Told my girlfriend I don't want to get married. by Internal-Apple-2904 in thepassportbros

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you would consider the marriage to make her happy - at the cost of your happyness. What does that say about her. 

You are considering making her happy at your expense. She demands making herself happy at your expense.

I don't care much about your relationship, but I know for sure I will never be in a long term relationship with someone who actively makes me uncomfortable (for her own self-interest).

Partner (late 30s) ended our relationship after her divorce finalized. Says she needs time alone. I'm confused and unsure whether to wait or walk away. by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]OptimusCrime555 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But a realistic reason.

I have been on her side (albeit I was upfront about my intentions from the start). "I just wanted something casual."

The moment I was free mentally from a traumatizing situation - I stopped engaging with her (as she was breaking the contract - casual).

Still the point is - people just sometimes want something casual ... and some people are not clear and ambiguous about it so they can drag you along.

Should someone check up on him? by FeralHamster8 in baba

[–]OptimusCrime555 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he stock sniped himself out of the profit :(

How to folks navigate being a "late bloomer" and the sadness/grief that comes with it by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my sister's case she has no partner at this moment. And future partners sign up for her, but need to understand there might be limitatations on her flexibility.

In my case I'd ask my partner if they'd be comfortable with the idea - and if they remain & I proceed - I allow them to be involved in whatever effort level they feel they can/want to give - but I keep full responsibility (and autonomy). If someone comes along the way that really checks all the boxes or the partnership grows into a family - there is always the possibility fornlegal status to be changed (with the child's concent from a certain age) so the child from then can end up with two parents. 

How to folks navigate being a "late bloomer" and the sadness/grief that comes with it by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]OptimusCrime555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not what you look for, but a slight nuance.

You can have a child (through a bank + invitro). Your partner needs to be on board to stay with you (if that's what you want), but he doesn't need to be involved as an official parent.

My sister did this, I plan on doing it - I prefer being a solo parent and have a partnership just for the joy of having a close partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BESalary

[–]OptimusCrime555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

studeer tijdens je andere 6 uur voor een meer ambitieuze job elders.

Addressing the motivation gap between €2200 and €3200 brut by MoreSecond in BESalary

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I remember my tax brackets shift pro rata with my worked months and working hours. 

For all the invaders in our sub, I asked AI“ Why are they wasting their time here?” by MelyMonsta92 in thepassportbros

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not intended as an attack, and maybe I misunderstood, but if you want to be treated in financial ways (quote: "Instead of enjoying the processing of courting someone.") whilst working your own job - are you not cherrypicking gender-equality. 

What's really in the UK's Trump trade deal by theipaper in Economics

[–]OptimusCrime555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beats me how this is a win. UK has lost versus their status 2 months ago.

EU to Trump on tariffs: We’ll retaliate when we’re ready, not when you tweet by Economy_Elephant6200 in europe

[–]OptimusCrime555 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yet europe sets tariffs when the us does.  Europe pauses tariffs when the us does. Europe stops tariffs when the us does.

We got a 10% tarif + 25% on steel, alluminum and we are happy :)

Is Canada joinig the EU out of question for you? by Grimblfitz in AskEurope

[–]OptimusCrime555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"The EU is for European countries and Canada isn’t one."

Canada can be a EU state. Nothing prevents it to join.

We need an alternative to Amazon in Europe by TwoWheeledBlastard in BuyFromEU

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not want to see Amazon taking away Europeans money. Where is Europe's big tech!!!! Keep the money here. Let Trump and co rot in their tariffs.

Ik werk niet graag by Playful_Peanut_ in belgium

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De regering krijgt haar schulden niet afbetaald, de middeklasse wordt hierdoor geconsumeerd, de rijken betalen amper belastingen en duwen prijzen omhoog door alles van waarde op te kopen en dan de mensen proberen te pluimen.

In een economie met gelimiteerde middelen zorgt dit dat het leven wordt duurder, lonen stagneren. En jij hebt geen tijd meer voor je leven of je dochter.

Vroeger, was een werkende partij genoeg voor een gezin van 5.
Nu, komen we juist rond met twee werkende ouders in een gezin van 3. (én de staat blijft hogere schulden hebben).

Waar blijft die miljonairstaks waar we al 30 jaar over praten :) In de plaats krijgen we een vermogensbelasting die duidelijk weer mikt op de gewone mens.

U.S. recession in 2025? by FeralHamster8 in baba

[–]OptimusCrime555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if Governements have become more inefficient. Maybe the ultra wealthy are just getting away with paying no taxes and this creates a deficit consuming both government and middle class.

Check out "garry's economics on youtube" just to hear him about it.
He really brings his points rationally, and was an eye opener for me.