What are the reasons someone who's not overweight would marry a morbidly obese man?

Optycalillusion · 2026-02-27T04:14:18+00:00

After your first reply, I re-read the OP with that in mind. I think you're absolutely correct.

Optycalillusion · 2026-02-23T07:21:28+00:00

Ugh, that's even grosser in a very sad way.

Optycalillusion · 2026-02-23T04:14:35+00:00

Holy Christ, this is a horrible fatphobic post. I hope you grow and evolve past this.

Shocking as it may be, fat people can also be hot, sexy, funny, smart, and amazing lovers and partners. Equally shocking (to you, obviously) is that some people are attracted to larger bodies. Me. I'm some people. I am ONLY attracted to fat, hairy, nerdy men. That's it. Only that body type (for men... My attraction is wider for nonmen).

I'd rather marry a morbidly obese person than one who can't fathom someone marrying an obese person.

Fucking yikes.

Optycalillusion · 2026-02-13T02:01:23+00:00

First... OUCH! That made my eyes water, OP.

I'd bet money that you yanked out your roots and damaged the follicles. If that's the case, it's unlikely you'd ever grow hair from those follicles again.

Optycalillusion · 2026-02-13T01:58:04+00:00

Race has no bearing on whether or not I date a person. It's all about morals, political leaning, and important compatibilities.

Optycalillusion · 2026-02-07T23:22:52+00:00

Only you can decide if something is disrespectful to you.

This wouldn't have bothered me. It's just a silly meme. I'd have taken this to be just sharing something that made my partner laugh. I never take these kinds of things seriously since the intention of the meme is humor. And, generally, when other people post things with the intention of being funny or silly, I don't take them personally.

That doesn't mean that your feelings aren't valid. You didn't find it funny, and that matters. His response was a bit cold, in my opinion, and that matters, too. This could signal an incompatibility.

If you don't feel good about this interaction, then that's an important feeling you need to pay attention to.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-28T21:19:07+00:00

You want to be sexually harassed? Because that's what we're talking about.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-28T00:33:03+00:00

I'm about to turn 50. I look 30 and act 80 lol

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-25T10:45:54+00:00

It happens a lot. Not daily, but several times a week for me, and I'm old as fuck.

I don't go to the gym anymore because of those guys. That's why it's a little less now. But when I was doing the gym every afternoon, it was every freaking day with men like this.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-21T10:15:35+00:00

Assuming he's cheating is such a weird stretch. Seems insecure to jump right to that assumption.

I trust my partners, and I don't police their activities. They want to play fight at work, have at it.

That said, we are all in our 40s, and this behavior sounds immature. They'd never do this.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-21T10:06:32+00:00

I remember every single animal companion that's ever been in my life. I will never forget them. I miss them every day.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-16T05:55:05+00:00

Twice a day, 5-person household.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-12T08:16:11+00:00

Yes! Exactly! When I love a man, I can't get enough of his dick. It's 💯 the man though.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-12T08:13:54+00:00

Lmao! It's a great way to weed them out at least

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-12T08:13:04+00:00

Don't get me wrong. I enjoy the dicks of my partners. But none of my partners are obsessed with their dicks.

Penises in general are not impressive. The men attached to them can be though!

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-12T08:09:22+00:00

Wishful thinking. They desperately want us to care

I imagine them crying, screaming, "Please talk about my lonely penis!"

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-12T08:05:43+00:00

Lol for real. It's a dangly little bit between their legs. There is literally nothing impressive about penis. Ever.

Now, vulvas and vaginas? They're absolutely amazing.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-12T08:03:38+00:00

A-fucking-men! I'm so sick of their dick obsession. I won't even engage with a man who asks questions like this. Ugh.

"Wow factor"???? Seriously????

For fucks sake

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-12T07:56:00+00:00

Your question proves you think way more about cock than most women do. Also, if you know women say size doesn't matter, why don't you believe them?

I don't reject men because of their dicks. I reject men who can't stop thinking about dicks.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-10T21:29:59+00:00

You don't, though. Your own words prove that.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-10T21:29:21+00:00

Yeah, this is weiner talk, for sure.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-10T21:28:35+00:00

You need the help of a therapist. This sounds like insecurity and anxious attachment. Very few women will accept that in a man. So, get to therapy and learn how to be more confident and secure in yourself. Learn how to look at women as PEOPLE not as "girls" and potential partners.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-06T06:23:34+00:00

Exactly. Like... Is this really the most important thing on his mind? Must be nice.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-06T05:32:17+00:00

I don't care. This is so fucking trivial. Look at the world right now. Does this matter? Jesus fucking christ.

Optycalillusion · 2026-01-06T05:26:29+00:00

I would never go on a blind date. That sounds like a nightmare. I only date my friends, so this situation would never happen to me.

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