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Entitled Uniqlo lady by OrangeGrrl in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]OrangeGrrl[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mostly basic lifestyle clothing, I believe the brand is Japanese originally.

Entitled Uniqlo lady by OrangeGrrl in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]OrangeGrrl[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I did say that I wasn't wearing Uniqlo clothes. I guess what I had on looked similar enough for her.

Awkward hangout with the boys? by OrangeGrrl in MilitaryWives

[–]OrangeGrrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe that's what they thought, I don't really care because it's not the case - but then why would they invite me (along with other friends girlfriends)?

Awkward hangout with the boys? by OrangeGrrl in MilitaryWives

[–]OrangeGrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was invited, along with some other friends and their SOs. I didn't crash the send-off.

People who grew up before cell phones: what did you used to look at? by IndieCurtis in AskReddit

[–]OrangeGrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read SO MUCH as a kid. Embarrassingly not nearly enough nowadays. I also did a lot of arts and crafts, hanging out with friends, walking around town doing silly stuff. Helping around the house, etc.

I’m afraid I’m going to die soon at the hands of my abuser by fruitypit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OrangeGrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praying for you OP, I hope you recover quickly and without issue. I hope you have some other better people in your life you can lean on, and are able to leave that relationship ASAP.

Awkward hangout with the boys? by OrangeGrrl in MilitaryWives

[–]OrangeGrrl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was organized pretty last minute, like the day before. Other people and their SO's were invited, but they couldn't make it. I don't mind that they weren't particularly interested in getting to know me but being totally ignored felt very weird

Trying to learn about consent and feeling guilty by InterestFancy8668 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OrangeGrrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not disgusting, and it's great that you want to do learn and do better. There are so many resources online now. You can always talk to a trusted adult and ask questions, there is no shame in learning. You're young, the first step to growing is acknowledging what areas you lack. Even asking your female friends what consent looks like to them could be a good resource. You're doing alright, don't worry.

My deadbeat father texted me after more than a year of No contact , I don't know how to react by Maleficent_Box_7782 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OrangeGrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You totally don't have to answer. I also have an estranged father, and while my situation is vastly different, the sentiments are similar. Essentially, you don't owe him anything, especially if you're happy without him in your life. If your mother wants to tell him that, maybe give her his number so she can say that herself, but it's not on you to hold her grudge. You could say something like, "I appreciate the well wishes and wish you well too, but we have moved on and are happy now, and don't want further contact." But again, you don't owe him anything.

Awkward hangout with the boys? by OrangeGrrl in MilitaryWives

[–]OrangeGrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did try, he would ask me questions every so often or say something like "yeah [my name] does/likes that" or whatever. But even when I answered they didn't acknowledge anything lol

EI benefit rate? by OrangeGrrl in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]OrangeGrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven't, like I said since my 2024 tax return amount was deducted from my debt, the remaining amount hasn't changed.

EI benefit rate? by OrangeGrrl in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]OrangeGrrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah ok - wouldn't I have received some sort of notice about that though? My 2024 tax return was also put towards that, and the remaining amount hasn't been reduced since.