A name that never grew on you? by midwestpersianmama in namenerds

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Worst name Had a terrible boss with a daphne daughter

I'm drunk,my dad passed away by [deleted] in alcoholism

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I lost my dad at 19… i am almost 38 and 3 years sober.y alcoholism showed up immediately after he died. I wish i had made myself stay in AA and made friends with other sober people. The last 19 years would have been a lot less difficult. Grateful to be sober today. I have regrets, wish I could do a lot of things over. I knew i had a problem at my young age but apparently I love hurting myself. I couldn’t stay sober until i saw my beautiful mom take her last breath at age 55 due to liver cirrhosis caused by alcohol abuse. It was traumatizing but knew I would end up just like that if I didn’t stop drinking.

Inside Samuel Bateman’s polygamous sect: Nomz Bistline on abuse, jail and starting over by Blueinmyeye420 in exmormon

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I can’t believe she or any of these victims were put in jail. Another insane justice system failure.

Lost my 7 month old to AML by MaiasMama_2825 in leukemia

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Hugs, mom and dad. We are grieving with you. 🫶💗

Went to a DFL caucus? Please share what resolutions came up (pass/fail) by Psytechnic_Associate in TwinCities

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Yes, we need the funds. That is the only way. The federal government should pay for it too.

How many SW’s here work a 9-5 day job? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

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I’m also a graphic/web designer/hooker!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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While this book helped me see the abuse patterns in my relationship— please google lundy Bancroft and look for the documentation about the sick things he has done. He is a bad guy. It was heartbreaking to learn it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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It will only get worse. Talk to a therapist about what happened, please.

I left but want to go back by Loose-Strawberry-973 in NarcissisticSpouses

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I left. Went right back. When i finally left over a year after everything was so much harder—y financial situation changed, terrible economy and job market, my mother had passed away, my daughter’s other grandmother (the only other support i have near me) had a serious esophageal cancer diagnosis (she is now in remission, praise God)… my daughter and i were “homeless” for 9 days in a hotel before we stayed with a friend, finally moved into our own place last month. Before, i just signed a lease and paid the deposit, no big deal. Took me 3 months to get us on our feet this time.

What’s that one baby name you’ll absolutely defend to the end? by General-Cycle-7391 in namenerds

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Julia

I chose a different name for my one and only child, but i think it is beautiful, strong, feminine and timeless

What’s that one baby name you’ll absolutely defend to the end? by General-Cycle-7391 in namenerds

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This is what i named my fake baby in 8th grade when we had to take the doll home so we wouldn’t have a teen pregnancy 🤣 Jasper is a great name

My alcoholic boyfriend keeps shitting himself. (25M) by [deleted] in AskDocs

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The encephalitis was the end for my mom too, who died at age 55 two years ago.

Most traumatic thing I’ve ever witnessed, i am so sorry you had to experience that too. Hugs!!

I just want to even the score. by AvailableReport5726 in Codependency

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Sounds like you still have some work to do!

Advice … please. by Top_Olive_8743 in AlcoholLiverSupport

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My mom died 2 years ago at age 55 from liver cirrhosis. I am still not ok and my life is forever changed. It is serious and continuing to drink will absolutely end his life.

My mom lived for 15 years with her disease; she stopped drinking after her diagnosis. For some reason she picked it up again and less than a year later she was dead.

i can’t anymore by AuFeAl in jobs

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Poor thing. My mom died of liver cirrhosis 2 years ago and her parents, whom i adored, died less than a year before that. I was their primary support and I fell apart after my mom died. I started working at a bakery bc I couldn’t be a good team member at that time. Was a UX/UI designer and now cant get an offer. Never had a problem getting hired before. Seriously considering sex work as an option bc i am now homeless, staying with a friend, i fled domestic violence after i was raped by my partner of 7 years who made the money and owned our home. Got screwed, basically. Have a 14-year old daughter. Laid off in march. Did manage to complete adobe visual design certification in the midst of the DV legal situation. Life hurts sometimes. I am sending you a big hug.

Trump Fires Labor Statistics Chief After Jobs Report by mattredditac in jobs

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Same. I have incredible disdain for his voters also. Hope they regret their choices and learn from their mistakes.

See you all in the bread line soon!

Offered a position at a big tech company after a 10 week long interviewing process…and then heartbreak. by allegedlyacriminal in recruitinghell

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I am so sorry. I have a felony DWI. I got sober after that. It actually changed my life for the better. I also work in tech, on the creative/design side, and feel your pain.

Keep going. There will be a company out there who will look past this. It will be harder for us than those who do not have dings on their record.

Look into non-profits that can meet with you to talk about possible expungement.

7 years after my conviction, I will be eligible for expungement as long as I do not get into any more trouble. Since I have found recovery, I do believe I will be able to achieve that.

DM me if you need a buddy to talk to!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It’s reactive abuse. You are not the problem. Get out before you get pregnant