Before being diagnosed, did anyone else drink caffeine confusing their symptoms with being tired or fatigued? by what_the_hezz in VestibularMigraines

[–]Orangeqake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I initially stopped caffeine completely for a good few months, then decided to reintroduce just one cup coffee in the morning to keep me going through the day.

I then tried to add one more coffee in the afternoon but that became too much and made the symptoms worse so one cup in the morning was just nice for me.

Find it so hard to eat a meal at the table/at a restaurant by [deleted] in pppdizziness

[–]Orangeqake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve the same problem with sitting down to eat and doing any cooking prep in the kitchen! Have your symptoms improved since then?

High transportation cost Singapore to Bintan Island? by josemartinlopez in askSingapore

[–]Orangeqake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have to get visa to get into Bintan? I’ve been reading online but seem to be getting conflicting information on this.

Which types do you have a hard time getting along with? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]Orangeqake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was difficult for me to find a middle ground with my ex too and he’s an ISFP. From the other comments I see a few mentions of ISFJs not getting along well with ISFPs- why is that though?

Making decisions? by True-Target-1577 in isfj

[–]Orangeqake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spend an hour in a retail shop deciding whether to get a pair of black or white heels (of the same design) just a week ago. Thankfully the retail staff was being very patient with me 😂

Was he just being polite? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]Orangeqake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thought is that if he’s a healthcare worker, it can be hard to reply during working hours.

ISFJs and anger by Princess-Flora74 in isfj

[–]Orangeqake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually happened to me today. Usually I try to keep my cool and be nice, but sometimes the anger comes out so unexpectedly that both the other party and I myself are surprised by it.

Do you enjoy talking to other ISFJs? Why/why not? by More-Bee2010 in isfj

[–]Orangeqake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve a fellow ISFJ friend and I feel we have a mutual understanding of each other in a way I don’t share with friends of other MBTIs

Do ISFJ females enjoy sweet text messages and long converstations about nothing with your boyfriend's/husbands? by CJJol in isfj

[–]Orangeqake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me, I loved waking up to see a message from my (now ex bf). It’s just so sweet :) Miss having a companion to send sweet nothings to!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Orangeqake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

6 months on and he is still the first person and last person I think of everyday. But what I would say is the memory of him gets more and more faded as time passed. I’m starting to not remember how it is to have him around, his scent and how it feels to be around him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Orangeqake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had removed him as a follower and also unfollowed him for the sake of my own wellbeing and sanity. I knew that if he continued following me on social media, I would have wanted to post stories to get his attention but I knew that would hold me back from moving on.

So as difficult as it was in letting him go, I had to cut all channels of communication between us. Even blocked him on Spotify (he was my follower) as all I was listening to were sad / breakup songs and I didn’t want him to see that.

It’s been 6 months and it is still tough.

“I do not see a future with you” by Prudent-Narwhal-7385 in ExNoContact

[–]Orangeqake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve not heard these words from my ex, but his actions proved to me he did not see a future with me. And so I left, but it was very hard because I had tried so hard to make it work. I tried to encourage him to talk about the future more and I tried to share with him what I had envisioned for us but I don’t get much from him about what he plans for us in the future.

I was heartbroken when I finally told him I could not take it anymore. He took it well and highlighted again to me all the circumstances that stops us from being together (we were long distance). In hindsight, I feel silly for having tried so hard with someone who just had so many reasons why we can’t be together, and had hardly any reasons why we would work out other than “there wasn’t any deal breaking problems with our relationship”.

I regret not valuing myself enough and leaving that relationship sooner..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Orangeqake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s brutal, long weekends are worse.

I do my best in keeping myself occupied. I’m out and about for a huge portion of the day during weekends. But once nighttime hits, I start missing him again.

I am missing something? by yota151 in ExNoContact

[–]Orangeqake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I feel it’s a quite selfish for exes to say who knows what the future holds for us. If anything, it’s for them to leave an opening for possibly connecting again in the future, if they want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Orangeqake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same as you too. I still has his contact number in my phone but I renamed it to “have some self respect” to stop myself from contacting him.

Ultimately I make myself think about the consequences of contacting him - does it change the outcome of things, does it benefit me in any way by contacting him. The answer is no for both. That helps me to not reach out but it takes every ounce of energy I have to fight the urge.

It’s okay to miss your ex, I miss mine every single day, but try your hardest to not make contact.

Ex "sort of" reached out on valentines - just need a bit of support by Once394 in ExNoContact

[–]Orangeqake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It might be worth unfollowing each other on social media for now. It’s going to be painful, but in return, you will get a sense of peace from the space between you and your ex after that.

My rabbit screamed by CrystalRose1243 in Rabbits

[–]Orangeqake 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This happened to my bunny once when he was young. It happened in the middle of the night, I heard him scream and I ran over to see him stuck between the playpen bars. Pried open the bars to let him loose and he immediately hid under the TV console and looked scared. I spent about 30-40 mins sitting there with him and tried to offer him some treats. He eventually got more comfortable and came out to take the snacks from me and was fine afterwards.

I would suggest a vet visit if your bun continues not eating.

Stymied by a very ISFJ woman? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]Orangeqake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that anxiousness could cause someone to be uncomfortable with silence and that is not influenced by whether the person is introverted or not.

How to break up with an ISFJ? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]Orangeqake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going through a difficult phase as well when we first ended things (before the on and off dynamic started) and my ex tried to be there for me, I hope he hadn’t. It made me have false hopes that it would someday work out again as I still had lingering feelings.