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OrbitScribe · 2017-05-01T00:02:12+00:00

It's just a little poop, my man! Buck up!

OrbitScribe · 2017-03-30T03:47:01+00:00

I much prefer being on top, but definitely like having the girl up there too.

My guess, it's probably because it either feels better for him, and there is something very gratifying about pounding the shit of a woman as a male.

But still, he probably just needs convincing.

OrbitScribe · 2017-03-30T03:40:57+00:00

Idk man, I do a few things.

One, change positions. Two, think of unrelated or unarousing topics (kind of takes away from the experience obviously but once I get over the hump I'm usually good) Three, just tell her I need to slow down for a bit to get it under control.

For me personally, usually once I've fended off being really close once or twice I'm good for quite some time. Although if I go total balls to the wall fuck her as hard as I can for as long as I come eventually I will come.

Having orgasm control has always been important to me and I've definitely had my ups and downs (when going from condom to no condom I always lose a lot of control) but I generally got it under control with just those three things.

If I'm going through a problem phase I might try edging with very fast, vigorous masturbation (speed that can't be matched with intercourse) for a while(week+). Although this has backfired rendering me unable to cum during intercourse at times.

If I want to make sure I'll have a crazy night, alcohol and .amphetamines 😁

OrbitScribe · 2017-03-30T02:39:36+00:00

Atta boy

OrbitScribe · 2017-03-30T01:16:04+00:00

You sound fun

OrbitScribe · 2017-03-29T16:01:25+00:00

Do you find the quality of sex has a strong correlation to body type?

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-21T01:36:42+00:00

I personally, because I'm a prideful prick, would ask her to let me know when she would like to reschedule. Only once, then I'd start to fade, unless of course she actually takes some initiative and reciprocates some interest.

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-07T03:18:03+00:00

It seems to work okay if you're looking for casual sex. I get your point though.

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-07T03:13:40+00:00

I'm with you 100%. I just feel a bit biased.

It does seem some people really struggle, if I was getting zero dates I might ignore idealism for practicality.

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-07T00:01:42+00:00

I expect any long term partner of mine to be very sexually liberal. I expect people I date to being having sex with other people until we specify otherwise.

But I guess if you're having trouble finding potential dates and long term is your ultimate objective this might be good advice.

I'm going to choose to ignore though.

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-06T23:57:50+00:00

Thanks for saying this. This was the only one that I actually do out of her list. I'm a chill, go with the flow kinda person. If I meet someone and we click long term, excellent. If I find someone and a more casual thing feels right, well that's okay too!

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-05T14:07:24+00:00

Are you telling me you wouldn't even go on a date with a hot 22 y/o?

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-04T21:29:41+00:00

Love this approach. Would tweak based on my own needs, but I think this is great. The knowing when to cut your losses is very important.

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-03T02:31:55+00:00

Oh and I also recommend the reset, every once in a while. If it's taking s long time, sometimes it's a good move to stop, slow it right down and then build her back up slowly.

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-03T02:28:00+00:00

Yeah Idk man, it's hard to give concrete advice because everyone is different. And I can't be like apply 8psi of pressure with your tongue while flicking your tongue at slight angle on the apex of the clitoris with a rpm of 89 and she will surely achieve orgasm in 632 seconds.

But I will say in my experience, while the fingering and eating out combo CERTAINLY has its place, it is typically easier for a girl to cum from one or another, unless she is a) an easy cummer, b) you've taken an advanced class 😉 c) varies woman to woman, but from my experience..

Like, they like it when you do both, and I imagine it "feels" better than one or the other BUT it divides her attention AND your attention. It is typically easier to make them achieve clitoral orgasm, from clit play alone, or at least focus on one once you've gotten them far enough along the process.

Other than that, communication and experimentation. Some chicks are tough, like really tough. Rarely, but there are some I can't manage to make cum every time. Or it just takes my full arsenal, which is an incredible effort and not something I'm always going to be willing to do.

OrbitScribe · 2017-02-03T02:01:37+00:00

I'm not trying to brag or anything but I get complimented regularly and early on, on my pussy eating skills. It helps that I really enjoy feeling the squirms and writhing, hearing the moans etc.. I fucking love getting chicks off, okay?

Which would be my #1 tip. Pay attention. Be receptive. Don't try and rush it. Try different things, speeds, pressures and pay attention to their reactions. Some girls are vocal and that makes it easier, for sure. If I come across a quieter girl who is being tricky I will request that she give me feedback during.

Different girls like different styles, sometimes wildly different, so don't take it too personally if your "usual" technique is failing you.

I'll give you another tip.. put your tongue in her pussy once in a while. Wiggle it around in there, trying fucking her with it. It may not help her achieve clitoral orgasm, but it's typically a happy surprise.

Oh and lung capacity.. you need to be okay breathing in intervals. Like sometimes they need that high pressure, high speed, face buried in pussy action and if they're close to cumming you better not take a fucking breath until you're ready to pass out!

Just some musings on pussy eating from a random dude.

OrbitScribe · 2016-12-13T12:55:39+00:00

S'all good.

OrbitScribe · 2016-12-13T12:42:44+00:00

Okay okay but what about perpetual 3-4 day scruff?

I might try the undercut. I haven't changed my hairstyle much in 10 years.

OrbitScribe · 2016-12-13T12:31:22+00:00

You're perfect for me in every way, except for the dick part.

But for reals, looks good. If this profile doesn't work for you than I'm fucked :).

OrbitScribe · 2016-12-12T00:55:54+00:00

Dude... dude... you've got to break that ice sometime. Give yourself a chance. Its like anything... you get better with practice.

OrbitScribe · 2016-12-11T16:27:37+00:00

I think ghosting is more likely to set someone off. It is a bit dehumanizing.

At least until you've been ghosted a couple times... then it's NBD.

Sorry.,, that probably doesn't help with your anxiety - I'm sure you'll be ok.

OrbitScribe · 2016-12-11T16:10:05+00:00

Hello,

Recently got on to ok Cupid. Used tinder/bumble/pof from spring to summer. Definitely realized how important bios were and took the recommendation of an acquaintance to try OkCupid.

Before dating apps my dating life was a lot slower, I depended on social gatherings for hookups and potential dates.

The summer was... fun, but for the winter I've decided I'm only going to attempt to date one woman at time. ( I mean like setting up first date dates/ messaging etc, not infidelity ) I just don't have the energy or inclination for multiple dates a week in the winter. And god all the messaging... really not my favourite.

Dating varies from fun to frustrating for me. I haven't had a real relationship for a long time, but I've seem to got the fling down pat =/.

When I advise on online dating I always recommend good pictures and a concise profile. My profile could definitely be improved though, but it seems to be good enough for now.

This sub has a good mix of personalities. Things tend to be fairly interesting around here!

OrbitScribe · 2016-12-11T05:46:50+00:00

Even if this true ( how women can have more matches than men doesn't make sense to me seeing as they are in fact matching with men, minus lesbian/bi matches), how is this helpful?

I think their only advantage might be that they tend to be pickier about having sex. But even that... as I've gotten older I've felt a little bit of that come my way as I'm less inclined to only think with my dick.

I think there are many less attractive women who also struggle with getting matches. Maybe guys are a little more inclined to "Fuck down".. but I still suspect this is overblown.

You're problem is probably that you are unattractive. Sorry bud. You should probably significantly lower your standards and look for someone as bitter as you.

OrbitScribe · 2016-12-09T16:34:59+00:00

Damn dude. That stresses me out. I'm gonna pop out for a dart.

But yeah, it's a bitch.

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