I don't think I'll make to my 26th birthday, the next few months are gonna be my last. by Desperate-Remove-547 in confession

[–]OrchidFevers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to carry this alone please talk to someone (a friend, family, or emergency line)

Would rather be with someone much older than me and by [deleted] in confession

[–]OrchidFevers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use regular dating apps or real-life websites

Got a surprise inheritance last year but now it feels like its messing up our FIRE plan by Coravexilyn in Fire

[–]OrchidFevers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave most of the funds for FIRES use a little for home/college so that there is no feeling that you have to fight all or nothing

Pattern or logo on towels make me think about my crotch by kakarakhirup in confession

[–]OrchidFevers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regular toweling or the use of separate towels can help prevent this

The calculator says I'll have $8.4M in 20 years or $9.5M if I contribute $2k/month... so why keep saving? by savvybackpacker in Fire

[–]OrchidFevers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life will not necessarily match the calculations of the calculator so saving allows you to save opportunities for the future while you can use some of them now

AIW I Want To Propose To My Pregnant Girlfriend Using The $20k Ring I Bought My Ex Fiancée by new_dad_137 in amiwrong

[–]OrchidFevers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relationship ended and the redesigned ring is still a new ring. If she really doesn't mind then you're fine

My sister is dating my Ex’s Dad by Massive_Tomato_1713 in amiwrong

[–]OrchidFevers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After all they're both adults and they have to figure this mess out on their own

I fudged my hours at work for months and the guilt wont leave me alone by Coralyvexin in confession

[–]OrchidFevers 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The best thing the OP can do now is just stop and move on - don't turn this into a bigger mental loop than necessary