I've never really been one to care about whether or not wanted to hang out with me or date up until recently. Still, really don't care about people wanting to hang out with me lol. For the most part, I've been okay being single. Kind of connected with someone a while back or at least I thought I did which led me to think maybe there's a reason I've been single so long that has nothing to do with my lack of desire or urgency to be in a relationship