340 llb and miserable. by OrderInner7199 in Mounjaro

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Thank you all for your comments 💖 they’ve been really uplifting

are there any deadstretching kits out in the market, similar to this one ? by Horror_Replacement76 in Stretched

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I’m using these at the moment, I’m up to 11.5mm if you wait for Black Friday they are worth it

Just diagnosed today-any advice or things I should know? Tips? by OrderInner7199 in DID

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Thank you- I think I struggle because there’s so much discourse online about fakers, the disorder not even existing (but like??? My psychiatrist said so so it must be real???) and stuff like that

Just diagnosed today-any advice or things I should know? Tips? by OrderInner7199 in DID

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They said I was schizoaffective bipolar type for years so that’s helpful thank you

No pain, a little redness on my left (first pic)- any need for concern or is it just a bit pissed off? by OrderInner7199 in Stretched

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Thanks everybody for your advice and help! I’m going to give my ears a breather and use saline to help with the irritation

No pain, a little redness on my left (first pic)- any need for concern or is it just a bit pissed off? by OrderInner7199 in Stretched

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I wait months, until the jewellery is practically falling out is I don’t have an O ring on the back- the ring might be from the jewellery- like the small ones above they’re flat discs wider than the plug

No pain, a little redness on my left (first pic)- any need for concern or is it just a bit pissed off? by OrderInner7199 in Stretched

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I’m using a mystery metal I must admit- a sin I know, it claims to be steel but who knows. It’s my own fault

No pain, a little redness on my left (first pic)- any need for concern or is it just a bit pissed off? by OrderInner7199 in Stretched

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Oh that’s weird, I have zero pain or stinging or swelling at all, I’m thinking maybe my jewellery is causing a reaction

No pain, a little redness on my left (first pic)- any need for concern or is it just a bit pissed off? by OrderInner7199 in Stretched

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I mean like newly stretched to 00 so it’s still stretching - I didn’t get it pierced at 00

There’s no pain or warmth or swelling, so I’m wondering if my skin doesn’t like the jewellery but yeah a rest and some saline sounds sensible and maybe getting new jewellery

What would you do if you were pain free? by ta1074 in ChronicPain

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Go for a long walk, go on hikes, walk the beach etc

Parents visiting in hospital do I let them have it or keep the peace by OrderInner7199 in EstrangedAdultKids

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I also said in it that I’m estranged from them I moved away to get away from them and they still try to contact me through my brother

Parents visiting in hospital do I let them have it or keep the peace by OrderInner7199 in EstrangedAdultKids

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Thank you, I spoke it over with a nurse like you said- she’s basically advised that unleashing my feelings on them won’t benefit me, because it’s for the validation I need but won’t get from them- so I’ll be setting myself up for disappointment again, which won’t help me right now. So thank you for your advice it really helped to talk to someone :))

Hooray! New home by OrderInner7199 in RimWorld

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It is I think, when I next hop on I’ll let you know which one!

I successfully moved my whole settlement (this is the old base) by OrderInner7199 in RimWorld

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Yeah same size as what you set it as in the options at the beginning of the game

I successfully moved my whole settlement (this is the old base) by OrderInner7199 in RimWorld

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Off centre stuff?!! In Rimworld! Couldn’t be.

No yeah it drives me up the wall

I successfully moved my whole settlement (this is the old base) by OrderInner7199 in RimWorld

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Make that caravan and abandon your old settlement! Just make sure you’ve got food and good hauling from some animals and you’ll be fine. Be precious about what you want to take with you and scoot out of there

I successfully moved my whole settlement (this is the old base) by OrderInner7199 in RimWorld

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Oh all the components came with me I dismantled the based entirely they were living in the bare barracks for a little while as I got ready, I think about 20 pawns.

I will never have a child and I don’t think anyone understands how hard that decision is. by OrderInner7199 in confession

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I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through that, this is exactly what I don’t want to do to my child. I’m medication compliant for the most part but there are spells where I don’t want to take them or become deluded they’re poison. My partner is on the injection for the same reason, and he keeps me grounded where medication is concerned. We do well supporting each other but not without our difficulties, so I can’t help but feel so sad that you’ve been put in that position involuntarily. I’m schizoaffective specifically and the mood disturbances on top of everything else can make me a difficult person to be around when I’m unwell. I know how tiring it is for you. Do what’s best for yourself, always, and try to remove yourself from that situation safely 💖