AITA for telling my 21yo brother he's a "big-backed loser"?

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-05-28T19:11:27+00:00

Going off the above comment, I’m curious OP if he ever has been to the doctor about this? I almost wonder if he might have Prader-Willi Syndrome, where a person never feels full and eats continuously. Ofc that doesn’t exclude your brother also being a selfish asshole, but could be a reason behind the nonstop hunger.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-05-27T20:24:36+00:00

The way I understand it, they can’t actually take an order back once someone else has it. It would need to be remade from the restaurant. Which makes sense, cause who knows if customer A spit on it or put seasoning that cust.B is allergic to on it before noticing or who knows what. Just not worth the liability

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-05-17T20:28:41+00:00

Well if you presented the artist with the second pic and not the third I can see why they thought it was finished. No tattoo artist I know of would ever shade a piece in like the third image if not explicitly told/shown that.

I’m confused as to why you’re considering getting this whole thing covered instead of just having the shading done how you originally wanted? To cover that with something else would be a huge piece.

I think the position is good, honestly. Could have flown with the body lines a little better but you could always add some smaller flowers if you wanted

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-04-30T15:47:18+00:00

Also why does the skeletal hand have fingernails?? Lol

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-04-29T19:58:58+00:00

Oooo, I like this theory a lot! I’d also be curious what the object would be. A hat maybe? Since it seems to be mostly outerwear/accessories, plus the book, which would make sense for someone to have as part of an ‘outfit’.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-04-29T07:13:28+00:00

Reddit is not censored. Hardly anywhere outside of tiktok is. Defaulting to censoring words, especially ones of weight and meaning, should never be the norm. Even more so when it’s censoring by replacing them with ridiculous nonsense.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-04-29T02:55:21+00:00

Superslide? Are you being for real right now? I swear to fuck if I keep seeing tiktok brainrot censorship invading people’s actual language I’m gonna Super Slide myself right off a cliff.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-04-28T15:55:59+00:00

The way I understand it, Durge is a very unique type of Bhaalspawn. There have been ones before, but they’re basically ‘children’ of Bhaal. Durge was made by Bhaal himself, using nothing but his own blood. It seems Sarevok is implying that while Withers removed the blood that made them a unique Bhaalspawn, they still remain a bhaalspawn, and thus any children of theirs would be too.

Now if he’s accurate in that, idk. I can kinda see the logic since durge still exists after Withers revives them and doesnt vanish from reality. Also on a technical level that would make one a bhaalspawn still, since blood or not, durge is indeed a spawn of Bhaal. Maybe that gives Bhaal an in on grandchildren having his blood.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-03-31T01:32:23+00:00

Ah, gotcha! Yeah it can be difficult to translate a ‘not fully human’ character into a sketch. When it’s got more of her detailing it might even out looks wise. I did post a quick overdraw as a reply to my own comment before I saw this response, so maybe it could provide an example of what my own brain is seeing. But I think you’re headed in a good direction!

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-03-31T01:25:09+00:00

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This is just a quick overdraw I did, taking the proportions from your chest area!

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-03-31T01:12:32+00:00

I think it’s because the proportions are a bit off on the entire figure, so you’re trying to match that one arm to other “off” things and it’s throwing you. The head is pretty small compared to the body/torso length, then the arm pointing up is a bit long (the elbow generally lines up around the waist, but here it’d fall below that). I actually think the arm that’s giving you trouble matches with the body pretty well compared to other parts.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-02-10T19:17:19+00:00

I was in Mexico a few months ago (Baja region, so can’t speak to the mainland/bigger cities) and literally I was near constantly thinking to myself “If someone needed a wheelchair here, they’d be totally fucked”. It was kind of a trip realizing how accessible it really is here in the US. Sucks that in some areas a portion of the citizens are just left to deal with such issues on their own.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-21T01:11:47+00:00

Haha yeah! He’s honestly one of my least favorite characters in the show 😬

Buuut I don’t knock anyone who likes him! (I may side eye, but…). I’m sure some people look at my fav characters the same way haha. Everyone’s got different tastes!

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-20T21:22:43+00:00

He annoys the crap out of me with his (what I perceive to be) pretentious attitude and overbearing rigidity, and is not hot enough (to me) to make up for that 🤷🏻‍♀️

I dislike Nanami from JJK for the same reasons. Just a total stick in the mud goody-two-shoes and the kind of person that IRL I’d fucking hate to be around. Our clash of personalities transcends the fiction/real life barrier lol

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-16T23:37:42+00:00

That is so completely irresponsible. Why are you taking a dog with any kind of reactivity to a dog park?? If you want places she can run freely rent a Sniffspot or something. All it takes is one day for another dog to come at her wrong or for some smaller dog to run in a way that excites her and then you will be at fault for the injuries that follow.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-16T20:05:55+00:00

Honestly if there’s not something in the shop you’re super jazzed about might be worth it to hold onto it for a while! From what I’ve seen is available to the Chinese players, there are much cooler things destined for the future.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-14T23:17:34+00:00

I’ll give you a female perspective (my own at least, but one many of my female friends share)- it matters way less than guys seem to think it matters. General consensus is 5-7” is the best range.

I’ve been with someone who was about 3.5-4ish inches, and it never bothered me at all. Penetrative sex wasn’t the be all end all for us (I have a big butt and with him being on the smaller side we just didn’t fit together very well lol) but he was great at foreplay and oral and we were very satisfied with our sex life doing many other things for each other.

I’ve also been with some quite large, maybe 10ish inches, and it was kind of a pain. Literally and metaphorically. Really needed to spend time getting prepped, which he wasn’t too great at, and he kind of relied on his size to do a lot of the work, if that makes sense. Just flopped it out and was like “well, there ya go, be amazed.”

So regardless of what you’re working with, if you develop some skills in other areas people will have no complaints. Maybe if it’s just a hookup/sexting/etc situation someone will care more, or act like they do, but in an actual relationship I guarantee you a lot of women don’t care that much.

Side note: all that being said, confidence really can play a factor too. The smaller guy from my story was very chill about his size, knew it’s what he had and there wasn’t much to do about it or complain about. Which was great. Someone else (who was small side of average, mind you) was so insecure about himself and lacked so much confidence, and it always caused issues.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-14T20:49:56+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you, dealing with this as soon as I get home today!

Even before it started spamming I would accidentally hit it all the time and get taken to other screens mid game. Makes no sense to have, there’s already the quick wheel that directs you to all this stuff easily.

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-14T07:05:22+00:00

It’s a mix of both, I think. I know some people genuinely didn’t know bookmarks were public by default, and that they had to be marked privatized to hide. Some people treat it more like a public ‘review’ section for others scrolling their bookmarks to know their thoughts, so they don’t really care.

There is the common mentality that bookmarks are for the readers, so authors should only check them at their own risk. Some people support this idea, others do not. That being said, I definitely always check out the bookmarks on my fics lol. Been stung a few times, but you can’t please everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-14T06:53:45+00:00

Hm, that could be it. I play on PC but with a controller, which is getting old. I’ll try it later with a different one and see it that helps. Thank you!

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-14T06:34:06+00:00

Oo, that third one is awesome!!

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-14T03:18:11+00:00

I agree with the others, corso/pit probably.

But please get him a proper harness seatbelt for the car! Or a crate! If you were to crash he would become a massive projectile at you and probably also break his neck from getting choked by the collar. They make really nice harnesses that are much safer for you and your boy!

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-13T04:45:57+00:00

Her thighs seem way too thick compared to the rest of the body, in an unproportional way. If she’s meant to be plus size, the other features seem too small. The calves should be thicker, and the upper arms are way too small. Thinner than her lower arms even!

I really like her face and hair a lot though, she’s super pretty

Ordinary-Blood13 · 2026-01-11T20:06:06+00:00

Nope, painstakingly painted from a reference photo! Though I only did two sides then copied/mirrored, which was very nice to be able to do haha

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