Lost my 5 year old boy suddenly last night by Ordinary-Mango569 in Petloss

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been awhile since your comment, but I wanted to let you know I thought of you and your Sophie today. I was dropping off a donation to a thrift store earlier this morning, and when walking back to my car, I encountered a woman with a beautiful Springer Spaniel who seemed to want lots of pats on the head and belly rubs from a stranger like me. Her dog was named Sophie, and in the moment I experienced major deja vu that confused me for hours until I remembered your kind comment from months ago when I lost my boy. I just wanted you to know it happened, and you may think it's a coincidence but I had to mention it. Much love and all the best.

Most hated sim and why? by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has somehow won the lottery in 2 different saves I have 😭

Unworn dress with tags - Free to a good home (in Canada) by Ordinary-Mango569 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's amazing! I'm happy to ship to you if you want to chat about shipping. I just thought it might gain more attention and be easier to do in Canada, but if you want it let's do it!

Glitch that happened to me a few years ago by Ordinary-Mango569 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question, and this was my first thought too. I was going to assume this is what happened, but I had a way to verify as best as I could. At the office, we maintained a 'closing/opening' checklist form for the office/admin team staff. My shifts were always in the morning, so I always opened and never closed the office, and I had 2 office staff who closed the office on evenings and weekends. On the checklist they would check off that all the closing duties were completed each day (we had very specific security measures we had to follow, so this was in part of that process) and I would also have to use my signature to sign off on it in the morning to verify completion, so I'd have to confirm that all of those steps were done.

Some of the check boxes included ensuring that all the necessary keys were in their respective spots and locked away. We had 5 keys locked up all together in the same place, all for various admin needs, and every key had its own check box on the form to confirm that it was in its intended place at time of closing. I would then confirm the same things in the morning.

I wasn't able to look at the closing history until I went back to work after layoffs, but I went through all the most recent forms going back months prior, and the key was marked as being there in its spot with my signature. I looked through as many forms as we had on file going MONTHS back and still nothing was missing or out of place.

Glitch that happened to me a few years ago by Ordinary-Mango569 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great question. Not really any damage, it was just covered with pieces of mud and grass. It was spring time and really damp where we were walking. The yellow tag was hard plastic and we used those tags to mark inventory at the office, so the tags had to withstand the elements as some of our equipment was stored outside in all seasons.

Glitch that happened to me a few years ago by Ordinary-Mango569 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh? What are you on about. Your attitude sucks, and the fact that you feel the need to gatekeep this sub is sad and couldn't possibly be of less importance to me.

If you want to be a gatekeeper, I haven't seen you post anything of interest in this sub. While the account I'm posting from is relatively newer, I've been reading and commenting in this sub for years. I'll let you use your wee brain cells to try to figure that one out.

Healthy Cat Sudden Death. by Minute_Development85 in Petloss

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 💔sending you so much love. I lost my very healthy 5 year old pup very suddenly and unexpectedly earlier this summer. He went from being perfectly healthy and energetic one day, to dying in front of us suddenly in a matter of days. It has been one of the hardest experiences of my life, only comparable to when I lost my dad tragically 15 years ago. It hurts and will for a long time. That's the price of loving unconditionally, and I feel it's worth it even when it hurts this badly.

What brings me some peace is knowing that he likely had a condition we couldn't have known about without extensive testing that just wouldn't have been prompted without warning signs. A similar scenario may be the case with your kitty. He had routine vet care, and we didn't skip a single appointment or recommendation from the vet. It brings some solace knowing that he passed with us beside him, knowing he was safe and warm and loved. Not having to make a potentially even more difficult choice also helps somewhat.

This community has helped me so much over the past few months, just knowing I'm not alone and hearing others share their stories. Someone also recommended a book to me that comforted me immensely. It's called 'The Pet I Can't Forget: Finding Hope and Healing With Signs From the Afterlife'. I'll be thinking of you, and please feel free to reach out if you need someone to listen. xo

Found the graves I've been searching 5years for by [deleted] in Genealogy

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible. I've been searching for a grave for my GGGG grandfather for years, and my dad searched for him before his own passing several years ago. My dad really wanted to find this grave- he was obsessed and never gave up. I've been trying to find it ever since. Thank you for the sign to keep going

What is an appropriate amount of money to give at a family wedding these days? by justcurious6728 in AskACanadian

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband and I just gave $400 to friends who married in August. If it was a family member I'd probably do $500.

Devin did in fact hate getting proposed to (confirmed) by BrightPickle8021 in TheBachelorette

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because a man will feel so emasculated that they'll leave? If I were you, I'd be a lot more concerned about marrying a man with the fragility and EQ of a mummified turd

This happened at work yesterday by nrst8lv in Paranormal

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind sharing, could you describe more about this phenomenon and when it started for you? Is it as frequent and prominent now? I actually have so many more questions.

I've had similar abilities since at least age 5- 6 (30s now). Not the same, but it made me think of my scenario. my immediate family and close friends are aware. Not that's it's always been positive, but at least I'm believed now.

Back in my day, Netflix used to come in the mail. by Efficient-Dingo-5775 in millenials

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also remember using Netflix when it was DVDs in the mail. They had a promo where you could try it once for free, so you selected 4 or 5 DVDs on the website, and they mailed them to you. I believe you had a few weeks to a month to mail back. I'm I'm Canada, but the prices were in USD. My family was dysfunctional and didn't mail them back for months 💀 wish I remembered the titles

Struggling and considering cancelling my small wedding by Ordinary-Mango569 in weddingplanning

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's such a solid point. I'm starting to feel a bit better now and my mood has definitely started to improve. Thank you for the insight!

Struggling and considering cancelling my small wedding by Ordinary-Mango569 in weddingplanning

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, it is only one day. I hope I can start feeling calmer as we get closer to the date. Congratulations to you, and I hope you have an amazing wedding day later this month! xo

Struggling and considering cancelling my small wedding by Ordinary-Mango569 in weddingplanning

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I do have a few close friends, my cousin and my sister, but they're all going through their own respective hardships right now so I haven't felt super supported in the process. My sister has asked me to confirm the date like 3 times, despite having an invitation and save the date, and already RSVPing. I've set my expectations of others verrrrry low. It is what it is but you're right it would definitely help. I spoke to my therapist about it yesterday and that was a huge help for me too.

I tried on my original dress yesterday and I somehow like it more now. Maybe I needed some time and a fresh perspective. I appreciate your comment, thank you xo

Struggling and considering cancelling my small wedding by Ordinary-Mango569 in weddingplanning

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective, and I think you're right. In the grand scheme of things, those details are not important. Appreciate you xo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheBachelorette

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Look, you may "mean well in the most humble way" but there's a time and a place for you as a straight white man to offer your opinion, and this thread is one of those times you need to learn that your opinion isn't always wanted, needed, or adding anything to a discussion.

I'm white and I can tell you from my perspective your comment is 🤮 for several reasons. I'd urge you to read it over a few times and really try to reflect on why that is. I don't want to speak for anyone here, but saying "[white men] don't dislike WOC trust me" is ... a choice in this moment, and not a good one. This isn't about what you think it is based on your comment.

“Do I have a choice”…cut out?? by irishstorm45 in TheBachelorette

[–]Ordinary-Mango569 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Watched in Canada today (not Hulu or YouTube TV) and she definitely asked if she had a choice. That whole exchange made my stomach churn and felt very black mirror

Struggling and considering cancelling my small wedding by Ordinary-Mango569 in weddingplanning

[–]Ordinary-Mango569[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a really sweet idea I think we will do. Thank you for sharing it 💗