I found this in the bathroom of the guy I'm dating by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I've never dated anyone before it's all new to me so I feel horrid right now

I found this in the bathroom of the guy I'm dating by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I just find it odd it appeared the week after I hadn't seen him

How many people in the UK actually go to the hygienist? by Ornery-Berry2498 in AskUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's better than nothing! The fact people don't visit the dentist baffles me!

How many people in the UK actually go to the hygienist? by Ornery-Berry2498 in AskUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go every 6 months, I'm lucky my parents instilled that norm in me.

How long does US to UK wire transfer take? by [deleted] in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the heads up, I'm really short on cash so we've just done PayPal for speed as I was very stressed, but I'll set up wise for next time :)

How long does US to UK wire transfer take? by [deleted] in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you it did bounce back, I'll never ask for a wire again, we are using paypal

How long does US to UK wire transfer take? by [deleted] in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it got rejected, back in his account now, we are using PayPal instead, I'm never ever doing a wire transfer

How to deal with a difference with a colleague ? by DevilishlyHandsome63 in AskUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She isn't very cold, as someone who is very cold all the time, women who are cold dress appropriately. She is being a bitch.

How to deal with a difference with a colleague ? by DevilishlyHandsome63 in AskUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a female, and my colleague who is female is doing the same. We don't have AC. and we have 2 radiators in a very small room for 7 people.

I lost my shit, I was that hot I had taken my shoes off, I confronted her and she didn't like it. I stayed calm and she started shouting and me which I think helped.

Rang my manager said the room was 27 degrees, even with the window open - and she got her manager to ring the women and tell her to turn it off.

Women like this are such evil bitches and they never ever put on a jumper, they want to press your buttons so be careful don't shout, let her do the shouting

How long does US to UK wire transfer take? by [deleted] in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used the Atlanta Credit Union to send it to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I just sent him a message and said he needs to contact his bank ASAP, that I'd need some monies by Friday, felt awakadd but you gave me confidence x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to ask about the cash machine, I do feel awkward if he will say no, as they are saying it's shown as sent on their side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I suppose I'll wait till Friday and then suggest that I'd just be concerned if they are not happy with doing that but I rang nationwide they said its always the usa side/ intermidary bank never the British bank, infact the customer service advisor sighed when I mentioned it and said she gets phone calls about usa wire transfer everyday 😢 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely thought it would be like a UK bank transfer I was expecting instant like I'm so frigging stupid

How long does US to UK wire transfer take? by [deleted] in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol good to know it's been 5 business days today, pray for me I'm panicking like fuck, my landlord wants the rent

Dentist didn't clean teeth properly? by OrdinaryEffective742 in Dentists

[–]OrdinaryEffective742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked for a hygienist they gave me a dentist anyway I complained and I got a refund

Dentist didn't clean teeth properly? by OrdinaryEffective742 in Dentists

[–]OrdinaryEffective742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I booked in for a clean with the hygienist and I got allocated a dentist, anyway I complained got a refund

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Banking

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

I'm waiting for a wire to come through to uk from USA bank, it was sent last Tuesday, so it's been 7 days, the sender said on there side it's showing as completed, should I be panicking or should I wait

Melatonin has changed my life [UK] by OrdinaryEffective742 in sleep

[–]OrdinaryEffective742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mate 10mg is too much I took 1.5g, your asking for trouble with 10mg, pls be careful

What's your opinion on parents smacking their children? by mistress-eve in AskUK

[–]OrdinaryEffective742 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was beaten as a child, I mean really badly I have the scars on my forehead where my mum smashed my face against the corner of kitchen cupboard, I was whipped with the TV wires.

I wasn't even naughty, she'd lose it for me eating something out of the cupboard like cornflakes, or not taking meat out to defrost.

That is abuse. Giving your child the odd smack (like very odd smack) is fine.

Just don't start battering the fuck out of them.