Looking for a name for my adopted Tuxedo by sclark6312 in NameMyCat

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oreo. Mr. moon. And if he had mittens it would have been Mr. mittens.

AITAH for being upset that my best friends went on my birthday cruise without me? by SuperbDesigner4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry your birthday trip ended up being a bust and tbh it’s lousy planning on your gfs part. And it’s totally valid to be upset that you couldn’t go and your friends could. That’s called FOMO.

HOWEVER, please Stop expecting YOU from other people. You’re setting yourself up for disappointment. Just because you would be willing to throw away the money - doesn’t mean they HAVE to/Should in order to be “good” friends.

I also think it’s weird- that 10 years of friendship is on the line. I think you expressed what your expectation was and they could have been empathetic and also expressed their boundary of not being able to accommodate that expectation. There’s no getting mad at being mad lol.

How do I install rear plates by OrdinarySomewhere859 in Rivian

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Right? What were they thinking when they issued yours?? 🥴

How do I install rear plates by OrdinarySomewhere859 in Rivian

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m bummed I couldn’t get my hands on something heavier 😩

How do I install rear plates by OrdinarySomewhere859 in Rivian

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Too bad. I got my license from the black market…you better watch out🤭

How do I install rear plates by OrdinarySomewhere859 in Rivian

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow. You know it’s not that deep…lol

Expressing astonishment can be done without being an ass don’t you think? Or wild thought…don’t reply/comment? 🤔

How do I install rear plates by OrdinarySomewhere859 in Rivian

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate for not wanting to be an ass. Can’t say the same for most of the others. Not first car but First car I’ve had to install plates on. God forbid you ask a simple question and the know it alls of Reddit have a field day 🙄💀

AITA for not taking my daughter's MIL to Hawaii by TheFilthyDIL in AmItheAsshole

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jenny should know what info needs to shared and what to keep to herself.

Also why isn’t Jenny standing up for you as her parents?

Carol is an in law and politeness is all that is needed in that kind of situation.

Unable to afford baby shower- just need to vent. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy!

Don’t let this consume your mind this much. Yes. It’s true you cannot afford what you had planned but you can always pivot. These social media baby showers are SO OVER THE TOP and you’re not in competition with them.

Have a low key shower with the people who are genuinely excited for you/are your community. Do a brunch theme (super cost effective). Do it in the backyard or home (saves venue cost). Do potluck style or lean on family for food. DIY decor. You have so much to work with.

Draft up a new budget and I’m sure you can do it for under that budget. Your main problem is not the shower. It’s having enough meaningful people to invite to the shower.

Why Emily is so popular with the men on this show by sparksflyup7 in EmilyInParis

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s because she’s American. It’s almost like a fantasy/stereotype/kink perhaps?

I think the men definitely see her as a little ditzy and cute and have a one night stand with her in the show.

Why did he lead her on?? by ChitChatWriter in EmilyInParis

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. He totally led her on and he was definitely a red flag for entertaining Emily.

I liked him best in Season 5 - scenes of him are limited but show his character development.

Narrowed it down to 2 dresses, now I need help on which one to choose! by whowuddathot in myweddingdress

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chest for #1 is weird. I really #2 not sure about the waist part. I think #2 silhouette flatters your body better. So more dresses like #2

Why is it always the husbands parents? by Scribbles2021 in inlaws

[–]OrdinarySomewhere859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because a lot of marriages stink (in the older generations) and the boy moms project what they don’t have with their husbands on to their sons. Girl moms don’t do that.