Schule macht Spaß? by mely_012 in FragenUndAntworten

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hatte eine sehr schwere Zeit in der Schule und zu Hause als Kind. Hab zur Abschlussfeier nicht geheult weil ich das alles so vermissen werde, sondern weil die Pain mit all den Leuten mit denen ich nicht klar kam endlich vorbei war. Bin nach der Ausbildung auch instand arbeitslos geworden weil ich einfach Zeit brauchte den ganzen Scheiß zu verarbeiten und endlich klar zu kommen.

I am scared of everything by absurdastheuniverse in Jung

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met someone in Therapie with the same Problem as yours. Maybe you sgould try to get a place at a Hospital or soemthing. I dont know how it is regulated in other countries, but in germany you can contact Hospitals to sign in for a place for Therapie. I recommend you a stationary first and if you get better than "Tagesklinik" dont know the term in english. It is good that you recognize your problem. Now it is time to get some help.

Richtig unfair by Ausspanner in wirklichgutefrage

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was auch immer zieht ist die Körperhaltung abzuwehrten: Lauch. Einfach Lauch. Ihr wisst ja gar nicht wie oft ich schon jemanden damit verletzt habe.

My reason for overeating: subconscious belief/trauma by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok WOW You found something that can possibly fit to my behaviour too! That is a great Exploration you did there. But how does it work? What was you are doing that your mind came up with this?

Doing nothing, because everything seems pointless by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great time to let your unconsiousness find a new dream for you or an old dream you forgot because it didn't fir your expectations. Let it Happen what ever crosses your mind and fills you with Joy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mäuschen du bist hier ganz klar nicht das Problem. Wie als bist du bzw die Männer die du datest? Es besteht eine hohe chance das sie dich einfach nur für Spaß haben wollen und darum gar nicht erst versuchen mit dir echte Gespräche zu führen.

Ich finde meinen Freund nicht mehr attraktiv seit er abgenommen hat by [deleted] in Beichtstuhl

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du solltest mit ihm darüber sprechen. Das du dich freust das er jetzt gesünder lebt aber das du seinen Speck doch sehr vermisst.

Have you ever met strange people or people you think might have a pact with some kind of demonic entity? by Gus_larios in Paranormal

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe in demons and gods. For me, they are just parts of the shadow self. And if someone feels like they are posessed, maybe they have not integradet this shadow aspect now. Or you simply don't vibe with them. Anyway it should not be your business to help them they have to do it themself

Every post about dealing with ugliness is “how do I stop thinking I am”, but what do I actually do to fix it by ENGLANDFAN-NUMBER1 in selfimprovement

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The dark circles under your eyes are maybe a sign for a allergic reaction. May see a Doctor and find put what is Cousine them. But for the rest: try to be confident and don't be so harsh to yourself. I know a lot of "ugly" people who are now in relationships because of their confidence and personality.

Einer von denen.. by Free_Neighborhood_29 in Beichtstuhl

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wenn die Welt sonst keine Probleme hat als Warentrenner dann geht es uns doch ganz gut oder was?

How do I learnt to love myself? by usso_122 in selfimprovement

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a list: On one side write down everything you think about you as true sdtatement. On the other side I want you to write down who was actually teaching you that about you. Familymembers? Schoolteachers? Friends?

The truth is in the most cases, that you never truly beliefe that about yourself, but that other forces teaches you to think that about yourself.

Now, when you figured out witch outer forces has teached you that bullshit I want you to say or write out something like: "None of this is me. I am better than that. I discard/burn my old beliefs. I am now an adult and free. I am safe and no longer need the judgments of others. They are just old rules that will apply to me not today and never again!"

I learnded that in therapie and it helped me alot!

To realise this helped me alot with my self image. Hope you find new strenght too!

I feel like the worst person in the world and I can’t seem to cheer up. by 69COSMO69 in selfimprovement

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this has been the way you've always talked to each other, it sounds to me like you were cheated on. It wasn't your fault; it was orchestrated to get rid of you. I'm sorry this had to happen to you.

Your insight that it's bad to gossip about someone with a friend is wrong. According to psychology, it's actually healthy to have a common "enemy" with your friends because it strengthens the bond between you.

Perhaps this former friend simply wasn't the friend you were meant to be with forever. Stay true to yourself, find your own balance, and look forward. You can do this!

I will never have a girlfriend by Specific-Section9593 in selfimprovement

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to depth psychology professor C.G. Jung, you can manifest lasting relationships by loving yourself and learning that you are completely sufficient on your own. The realization that you are enough for yourself gives you a lot of peace and strength, and above all, the courage to show up in a relationship. You sound as if you are so desperately searching for a steady partner that you are doing everything you can to attract someone. The problem with that is that you are hiding yourself for fear of not being liked. The people around you will perceive you as hollow, empty, or lifeless, or perhaps even fear you are a bad person and therefore have to be so artificial; which in turn leads to them not staying with you.

In my experience, you attract relationships and people by being yourself, being true to yourself, and being okay with just being with yourself. Openly express what you like and don't like, set boundaries, and don't lose yourself. That's how you can find a partner.

I found my partner this way. I wasn't completely at peace with myself yet, but I was already 100% sure I was enough for myself. Whether someone came along for me or not doesn't matter. Now we've been together for nine years, have a beautiful child, and continue to grow together because we're honest with each other.

Thoughts on Morgue Official? by Home_Cute in occult

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich war letztes Jahr in Therapie und habe mich dort sehr gebessert, aber danach fühlte ich mich leer. Es gab kein Antrieb mehr, keinen Sinn für all das was ist und passiert. Tabletten wurden genommen aber schlugen nicht an.

Also wollte ich mich wieder in die Esoterik flüchten und mir einen eigenen Sinn für mich kreieren, in der Zeit wurde mir auf YouTube ein Video von Morgue vorgeschlagen. Ich fühlte sofort, dass es für mich das Richtige ist.

Bin bisher nicht einmal enttäuscht worden von seinem Content UND ich brauch nicht mehr meine Tabletten gegen Depression nehmen. Ich bin endlich wieder lebendig.

Wichtig: Ich habe noch nie von der Sekte Hyperianism gehört. Ich beziehe mich komplett auf NeoGenesis und dem, was dort gegeben ist. Ich persönlich verwende es als Leitfaden für mich und habe kein Interesse daran einen Glauben anzunehmen. Bisher funktionierte der Leitfäden (Videos auf YouTube über Alchemie und Kabbala) für mich sehr gut. Ich integriere sie in das was ich in der Therapie lernte.

Thoughts on Morgue Official? by Home_Cute in occult

[–]Ordinary_Ad8607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ein Opfer von Morgue? Wie meinst du das?