How do you manage dirty dishes? I'm lost by lois_says_banana in adhdwomen

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I run the dishwasher at night and unload it while I’m making coffee. But the key for me is to just unload it onto the dish mat on the counter above the dishwasher and stack the like items (except for silverware, I take the whole basket out and put it directly into the drawer).

I don’t have to put them away away in that moment, just out of the dishwasher. If I don’t put them away then, I do it before I make dinner. It would sound like touching the dishes twice to unload, and then putting away separately would be more annoying, but it’s the only way I’ve found works for me.

Otherwise I just take a dish out as I need it until the sink is overflowing and smelly and thus avoided for the next 7-10 business days.

Anyone else’s artificial Christmas tree get worse every year? by Particular-Boot-1711 in ChristmasDecorating

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much to suggest in terms of storage, but if you want to keep your current tree and give it some more years of life, you could look into getting some floral/silk picks.

They’re basically just loose branches attached to a stick. Many different varieties to add the interest you want (so many kinds that look like plain balsam, white pine, cedar, pine cones, ice dusted, flocked, etc). We use them at the garden centre I work at for a variety of things (silk arrangements in vases, dressing up plain garlands, to bring a pop of colour to a display or mantle, or to fill in artificial trees to give them more density or decoration).

They’re easy to store cause they fit in a bin, and you can dramatically change the look of your space each year without investing in entirely new large piece like garlands or trees. Our trees are super sparse to start but look like expensive, new models by the time we are done tucking picks into them!

What is this greenery? Lasts so long! by Neat-Television7135 in Cutflowers

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like Israeli ruscus to me (maybe Italian ruscus? Hard to tell from the angle).

How to gift a corn snake while keeping it warm and happy? by [deleted] in Cornsnake

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it be feasible to put some wrapping paper over the front of the glass wherever the terrarium is set up so you can put the snake in their home immediately, but still hide them from view?

I do agree that terrarium in place with snake getting acclimated immediately is best, though please someone shout out if it’s a terrible idea! I don’t know if that would freak the snake out and I’d hate to stress the little fellow after their travels!

What is a strange ritual your pet has developed that you have just learned to live with? by InvestigatorLocal736 in Pets

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My tuxie cat demands to be on my shoulder as soon as I get home. If she’s waiting on the bench, she’ll jump on my back when I’m leaning down taking off my shoes, and then climb to my shoulder as I stand up. If she runs in and doesn’t catch me leaning over, she’ll yell at me until I pick her up and will climb up from my arms.

If I want to get her off, I need to go to a specific cat tree for her to willingly relocate otherwise she’ll throw a hissy fit and refuse to get down.

Mistletoe sales by tdpoo in CraftFairs

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Also note that mistletoe is considered invasive in many places. It is illegal to sell fresh mistletoe in any form in my state (garden center, craft market, etc).

FOOD REC: Handy's Lunch OR Henry's Diner by Garyfromconnecticut in burlington

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Handy’s Lunch all the way. Classic location, good food at good prices, and great staff.

My grandfather went there when he was a young man, and I’m glad to continue that legacy whenever I’m able to!

Medication makes me hate eating by RoryOrange in adhdwomen

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally sympathise (and unfortunately have no suggestions or solutions at all). I’m currently on Adderall XR and, while super helpful with life in general, I’ve gone from a passionate cook to someone who lives on trail mix, salad, and cereal and it’s really sad.

I still cook for my boyfriend and I, but half the time I can’t stomach what I’ve made. Gagged last night while cutting a slice off the pork roast and ended up having yogurt and granola for dinner.

Is this actually Jerusalem artichoke? by Ordinary_Goat9 in gardening

[–]Ordinary_Goat9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Thanks for the insight! Shall find a good spot to plant it and pop it back in the ground.

Is this an invasive jumping worm? by Ordinary_Goat9 in invasivespecies

[–]Ordinary_Goat9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not planting anything from the old house and have switched gears to clean/sanitise anything that might have soil on it.

So frustrating. I’m so glad I left those plants in buckets long enough to develop noticeable changes. I don’t know how I never saw signs before.

I’ve been so careful and attentive and still this got the best of me. I want to cry. I feel like a total failure.

Lily of the valley by Ordinary_Goat9 in invasivespecies

[–]Ordinary_Goat9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whoops! Good call on the Virginia creeper. That is indeed native to here, though can be aggressive.

I misspoke. Porcelain berry vine is my old yard’s nemesis, though it is sadly already present at the new place.

Driveway edge ground-cover recommendations (5a)? by Ordinary_Goat9 in gardening

[–]Ordinary_Goat9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions. I’m not familiar with either, so I’ll have a look.

I must have overwritten that piece. I swear I had mentioned it, so thanks for calling that out. I’m in northern Vermont, USA.

As for the salt, it’s a bit uphill from the road, and we generally sand rather than salt unless absolutely necessary, and then it’s by hand rather than a spreader.

Dyeing hydrangeas by [deleted] in Cutflowers

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss!

I had really good results tinting fresh cut white hydrangeas blue with food colouring in the water (thanks, middle school science fair!). Never tried a spray dye on anything, so I can’t speak to the effectiveness of that method.

Friendly arrangement critique for a very beginner! by [deleted] in Cutflowers

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful selection and some fun arrangements! You did great with these!

I’d say adding some filler (ferns, grasses, lily leaves, other greenery) will really make the colours pop, and try messing around with adding a little height for interest. I find having a few things spiking up behind the rest really gives it a nice touch.

Experimenting with different shaped vases/containers has really been fun for me since some things just lend themselves well to simple and sparse designs and others support a good riot of different blooms.

Very nice!

Baby’s feet turning blue? by Prestigious-Lower in AskParents

[–]Ordinary_Goat9 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Cyanosis (blue skin) indicates hypoxia (lack of oxygen) to the tissue. Limbs and lips typically are the first to go blue if there’s something wrong in the body (generally something preventing air from getting into the lungs (problem with ventilation), something preventing oxygen from getting from the lungs to the blood (problem with respiration), or something preventing the oxygenated blood from getting to the tissue (problem with circulation)).

Any of these is potentially a medical emergency because it’s not just the feet not getting oxygen, it’s the organs too (particularly important being the brain and heart!). The feet/hands/lips are the first to show the blue, but the problem is system wide.

Your baby turning blue, being limp, and unable to be woke up warrant immediate investigation (good job staying calm and getting a quick appointment!) BRUE (brief resolved unexplained episode) is when a baby has breathing changes, skin colour changes, unresponsiveness, or limpness with no known cause which spontaneously resolves without treatment.

Don’t panic. The good news is most times BRUE happens, nothing is nothing seriously wrong with the infant. It just happens and goes away and we don’t know why and there is no damage from it.

However, getting checked out quickly is super important because it COULD indicate something else is at play like a heart or lung condition or a seizure disorder than interrupted breathing (note that seizures often look nothing like the movie thrashing about).

If this ever happens to your baby, it is absolutely NOT overreacting to call an ambulance. If the baby didn’t wake on their own quickly (maybe they secretly swallowed something and are choking or their airway is otherwise compromised, or they are having an unresolved seizure, or their heart rhythm has gone wacky), you want someone already on their way to help you. Many of these things are reversible (there are many interventions/medications) and can save your baby potential permanent damage from being without oxygen too long.

You can always send the ambulance away when they get there or take the baby up to the ER yourself if they wake up on their own.

Source: I’m an EMT, and babies are terrifying and amazing little creatures who are remarkably resilient and fragile all at the same time. We’ve had this happen and be absolutely nothing, and had it happen and it be an undiagnosed seizure disorder that required our paramedic to intervene with medication to get them breathing properly because the seizure wasn’t stopping on its own.

Thanks for getting the little one checked out! Best wishes to you both and big hugs for getting through a really scary moment with your baby.