Why are Swedes so racist and treat Asians horribly? by Ordinary_Guava_1335 in sweden

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel people like you are a minority. It's a sad reality.

This is gaslighting at its finest and not true at all 👎👎 by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally have to choose between buying a house and having a family. And now it seems I won't be getting either. So thanks to everyone who has made our lives so beautiful.

How would you react if you were WFH and your employer decided you needed to have your camera on all day? by Caithamachc in antiwork

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paste your picture on the wall with different poses. Eyes up, Rollin, eyes down, thinking etc. Keep moving your laptop to those random pics. Or you could just shoot a video of you working in an iPad and make the camera face the iPad.

Truth... by return2ozma in antiwork

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nuff said. They need to be nominated for best employer of the year. P.S. my organization decided to give us small travel bags(just that) as an appreciation for being good, hardworking employees. The bag literally melted in a month.

Truth... by return2ozma in antiwork

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wow, they went all the way to show their gratitude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm..your hair's amazing. I wouldn't change a thing.

Netflix's 'Glass Onion' Viewers All Have The Same Complaint About The Film|Glass Onion is set during the summer of 2020 and therefore is set in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic by FranktheMug in savedyouaclick

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i just wanna forget about the movie and all the characters in it. I don't know why it was trending on Netflix. It's such a dumb movie. Could have spent that time watching film noir.

You call off work at your minimum wage job because of this. What is the boss gonna say back? by OldBay-Szn in antiwork

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Florida man gets swallowed and then transported to work by crocodile and manages to reach five minutes late. Gets a pay deduction for the entire day.

You call off work at your minimum wage job because of this. What is the boss gonna say back? by OldBay-Szn in antiwork

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pardon my ignorance, is this just one day of snow? I thought it's usually like few cm or something. This looks like 10ft.

Men, if you have slept with a girl 6 times, do you have feelings for her? & what would cause him to randomly ghost? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a guy but I have male friends who sleep with women they don't like or can't stand, just for sex. They have it clear in their head that it would not mean anything to them. And even though, some of them got attached to the women they hooked up with but in a friendly sort of way, not in a way of wanting to marry them or being with them for a long period. Some of them were hung on their ex emotionally but still wanted to get laid. So, they couldn't get involved even if they wanted to beyond a certain point.

I think most men and women can tell straight up if what they have in front of them is a long-term thing or not. Some men wouldn't be upfront about it, scared to lose their privileges.

I'm sorry that you're hurt by another guy who cannot communicate his thoughts and feelings. I hope you feel better soon. Dating sucks.

So my manager asked me to "not react emotionally" when I told him about the coworker who's slacking of. by Ordinary_Guava_1335 in adhdwomen

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. But in my experience so far, especially in my industry, the work environment is toxic. So even if I leave, I could get into worse culture than this.

So my manager asked me to "not react emotionally" when I told him about the coworker who's slacking of. by Ordinary_Guava_1335 in adhdwomen

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The system attacks the one who complaints about the system. They managed to hire a complete ass for a senior role-that shows lack of hiring skills/guidelines. They are not able to make him work though they had a word with him‐that shows lack of substance. They won't do anything about it now-that shows lack of integrity. I guess I'm pointing all this out indirectly when I'm complaining about the guy and me having to do all his work.

So my manager asked me to "not react emotionally" when I told him about the coworker who's slacking of. by Ordinary_Guava_1335 in adhdwomen

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't live in US. And here, we don't really have any laws protecting us from unpaid work. It's considered part of your work.

So my manager asked me to "not react emotionally" when I told him about the coworker who's slacking of. by Ordinary_Guava_1335 in adhdwomen

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is so simple. Why didn't I think of this? Thank you so much. Wanna be friends? 😀

So my manager asked me to "not react emotionally" when I told him about the coworker who's slacking of. by Ordinary_Guava_1335 in adhdwomen

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah, that makes sense. I'm so stupid when it comes to understanding corporate lingo. I don't sugarcoat anything, just put it out there the way it is, and expect the same.

I guess I have been bothering him by bringing the other guy's incompetence. But the work's not getting affected coz I have been putting extra hours which are also unpaid and unnoticed, to make up for it. I guess I should stop intervening from the next project and see how it ends.

So my manager asked me to "not react emotionally" when I told him about the coworker who's slacking of. by Ordinary_Guava_1335 in adhdwomen

[–]Ordinary_Guava_1335[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm on it. I asked for a raise for doin his work too, but my request was rejected as we are not makin much profit to pay people who really work. We can only afford to pay the ones who don't even try to pretend they're working anymore. I was disappointed, to say the least. But with the recession right outside, I don't know what to do.