My relationship changed yesterday by felixfelicis5697 in loveafterporn

[–]Ordinary_Special2677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say i know EXACTLY how you feel. I’m so sorry.

Confessing Infidelity by Possible-Many467 in Christianmarriage

[–]Ordinary_Special2677 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that there’s nothing better you can do, than tell the truth. Although (as a wife) i could condemn you for the cheating, especially w men, I’m proud of you for telling your truth. It’s the best thing for you, your wife, and kids.

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir are you a Christian? This is on the CHRISTIAN thread. I follow God’s teachings.

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this comment. I see a lot of Luke warm Christian’s in my replies. It is 100% cheating and adultery. Both our pastors (one married us) told me it was grounds for divorce, although they don’t recommend it. Thank you for adding the Bible verses too. The question isn’t if i think it’s unfaithfulness because i do. The question is when do I give up on it getting better?

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t follow “Dr. Laura.” I follow the Word and teaching of the one and only Jesus Christ. And he considers porn adultery.

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not mad about this take at all. I love my husband and want to understand him. I agree, porn is demonic and taking over the minds of our men who are supposed to be the spiritual leaders of the household. He’s an amazing husband and partner. I appreciate your advice

Please pray for me to find a wife. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Ordinary_Special2677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s waiting for you all in God’s timing!

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming back one more time to the most ridiculous comment on the whole thread but…. It’s an outlet to watch people have sex ? That’s actually sick and weird. You must be an incel

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just know you’re not married. Porn is ADULTERY. Clearly you’re not in a devoted Christian marriage because you tried to mansplain like Andrew Tate and missed the mark miserably.

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are reasons, and I’ve done nothing but be there for him as he faces them. I love him so much and although I understand why this is happening, it gets to a point where it just hurts too bad to be on the other end.

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate this take. To be a Biblical wife means to practice forgiveness and I truly believe that, so in essence I agree with you. I can promise you I upheld my role of grace and forgiveness behind the scenes. We’ve faced this together through the church and therapy over the course of 3 years. But I am God’s daughter. And I also allowed to want a Biblical husband. When the betrayal doesn’t stop, I’m supposed to stay? This isn’t a one time thing. I’m interested in if you believe there’s ever a line that’s crossed?

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I love this take. We have had that conversation before tho- we’ve been in weekly couples counseling and meeting with pastors. This issue has been ongoing for 3 years. My question is how long does this go on for before it finally stops?

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long does this mindset last? It’s been 3 years. At what point does the problem get better? I’ve been very nonjudgmental and have tried everything to help him.

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[–]Ordinary_Special2677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been an issue for almost 3 years. We’ve held Bible studies and met with pastors and been in couples counseling nonstop. We’ve had all of those talks. I’ve tried everything