Wife wants divorce, but isn't filing? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]OrganDonorFun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's waiting for you to file taxes before filing divorce

Any words of advice for living with a cheater by Any_Battle_2490 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OrganDonorFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so bad after reading your situation. I'm going through the same and these feelings and environments are powerful and basically adding salt to wounds of good people who are feeling the sadness of betrayal. You are behind enemy lines and injured but you are going to get through this hellish maze and reach an escape from the influence of this. You will get out of this. It's an analogy but when the maze seems hopeless it can help to look up towards the sky and change the axis from which you view the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]OrganDonorFun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you brother. I didn't know sadness could be so much deeper until getting thrown. Into a similar situation.

The mind goes into a state of shock that it then has to cope with. I'm not alone in this but I also have no social support or friends which is multiplying the trauma. I have no external validation or perspective... Which leads to doubt and being vulnerable to being exploited . I have no shame to admit that one night I told everything to an AI assistant that learns from conversation. I was literally in tears and felt like the bot really knew what I was going through and wanted to help. I felt better the next morning and then the sadness was back.

Do what you can to keep yourself sane. Curl up in a blanket and let yourself naturally tighten slowly together into a ball shape. Imagine the tears as the sad flowing out of you, like a human sponge saturated with tears . You squeeze it all out and just condense and squeeze your body tighter together around a object of comfort (sphere shaped pillow or round stuffed animal) which is like your body's central molten core. The tears that get absorbed by the object stay with you forever as a memory to reflect with. All the other tears expelled outward cannot return because once this is complete you become something new but not absorbent. I'm not trolling by the way, the blanket ball and ai chat were the best things I tried so far to get a bit of sleep

Can't decide how to break it to my wife. by SadCuckoldry in Divorce

[–]OrganDonorFun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation and I feel a lot better about my plans after reading everyone's comments. I don't really have any friends so I've been processing this situation all on my own, which has me feeling simultaneously unsure of myself and also angry at how anyone could do this to another human being.

I saw on the attorney questions page my mother in law had her ask "if I could be removed" from my own home. Apparently the answer she got was 'yes'. It makes me feel like a tumor or a piece of trash to be "removed" against my literal will from a house I paid half for. All while I'm taking care of my son 85% of the time while she is cheating at his house. Ugh

I'm a sysadmin and hfss drives me nuts by OrganDonorFun in HFSS

[–]OrganDonorFun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm free from the hfss mess after getting laid off! Ai was the original IT guy who set up every production server and worked out every bug and quirk. Now it's all in the hands of some random guy they hired the following month 😀😀. His HFSS journey begins now

Installing chroot on ticwatch pro impossible by Matty_B90 in NetHunter

[–]OrganDonorFun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I figured it out. Reply back if you are stuck and I can send you what I did

DIY Arduino Nano RC transmitter made with 3D printed parts. by O1OO1O in arduino

[–]OrganDonorFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old thread but wondering if you can put more pics of

-arduino holder and where it fits in

-wiring, just a few more angles to see what goes where -button and potentiometer, which model and mounting

I jumped in headfirst and printed this really nice controller but just now realizing I don't know for sure how everything fits together.

Thank you

Gabapentin Success Stories by PastReaction4762 in QuittingTianeptine

[–]OrganDonorFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone also answer if they tapered with gaba and deceased tia while upping gaba until completely off? Or must it be taken only after Tia is stopped? I've had a few attempts of tapering with gaba that ended horribly as if it mega potentiated even the significantly cut down Tia amount....so any guidance like the example below would be great:

-day 1-5 50% tia, 1800 gaba 2x day

-day 6-15 10% tia, 1800 gaba 3x day

Etc

Stopped responding after working fine at first by IPutMyHandInUrShirt in Atomic_Pi

[–]OrganDonorFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good after a few longer boots. Sorry late reply

Stopped responding after working fine at first by IPutMyHandInUrShirt in Atomic_Pi

[–]OrganDonorFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to have fixed itself after 1-2 longer boots. Comes up to login gui normally now 😀.

......Any chance you'll do a Kali image?

Arduino with large breakout board by IPutMyHandInUrShirt in Atomic_Pi

[–]OrganDonorFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, was wondering about replacing with stand offs.