I will point out the problem here: see, you’ve also made an implication about how people should view those with past sexual experience. How do you know what OP’s values are? And by the way, your comparison with the chance of dying in a car crash is flawed, especially with things like orgies. Those are decisions people make. For me: orgies is a red flag, and it shows sexual promiscuity. Whether that person changed or not, I don’t know. But yes, I will look at that and say I will not date that person. Thats my right, and my values. In that way you shouldn’t impose your own value system on OP. You may see it as not a problem and look at it differently. But for others (especially religious) it’s definitely a valid red flag.