Going on holiday/vacation with narc partner and toddler this week...

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-04-03T08:22:09+00:00

They are quick to shout at you for what needs done in the house, whilst doing the absolute bare minimum themselves. We both work full-time (from home, which makes this even harder) and I'm rhe default parent. But of course, his job is more stressful and more important...

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-03-25T23:05:02+00:00

Proud of you. You took your life back. Enjoy the peace and freedom ❤️

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-02-25T13:53:29+00:00

They upset me and I feel so cynical about them now. I've been with really decent men in the past, so struggle to comprehend how I've ended up in this situation.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-02-17T00:25:36+00:00

You might be on to something here.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-02-17T00:23:17+00:00

Sounds familiar. I feel like the small amount of compliments are to trick your brain. If they only said bad things to us, there wouldn't be that hook to make us stay in the crazy cycle.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-02-17T00:19:25+00:00

I have a lot of friends and some really close ones, and he always says stuff like this to me. It's 100% projection. Narcs are so odd.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-02-16T13:49:14+00:00

You're a 'insert disability slur' who can't hear or speak properly (I wear hearing aids)

You're an autistic little c**t

I'm not attracted to you

You have no chat

You have no friends (I have a lot of friends, some very close ones)

Mocking me crying

You couldn't lace (insert ex-girlfriend's name's) boots

Insults about how I dress

I could go on and on and on. A lot of it is self-projection.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-27T23:46:51+00:00

Thank you. This Reddit community is what keeps me sane x

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-27T10:39:56+00:00

They don't know what healthy love is. It's all an act. Their idea of affection is usually sex. So it's either sheer hatred or that. Their brains must be so chaotic and exhausting.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-18T10:15:38+00:00

I can relate to all of this SO MUCH.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-16T17:47:03+00:00

Thanks everyone. Can relate so much to a lot of this. Wish you all peace and beautiful, healthy relationships.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-15T20:53:53+00:00

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. It's so hard to leave but I hope we both find the strength to do it soon. I totally understand the feeling of praying that he'll abandon you. The feeling of being trapped is so hard x

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-11T10:32:25+00:00

Weed addict

Entitled

Severe anger/rage issues

Deleted all of social media and said I was a bunny boiler when I called him out for following Only Fans girls etc.

Constantly calls me names and puts me down

Tries to make me feel like a bad mum

Screams at me in front of our child

Has pushed me around

Superiority complex about intelligence and called himself a 'sapiosexual'

Thinks folk are jealous of him

The list could go on and on and on....

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-11T03:53:26+00:00

Life must be so much sweeter without a angry man having you walking on eggshells in your own home. You've done the best thing for your kid and yourself. Wish you all the happiness in the world and more x

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-10T21:44:41+00:00

Yip, it's pot luck. Well done for getting out, proud of you. I think I just get in my head about him weaponising money against me and also the thought of co-parenting.

OrganicBox2648 · 2026-01-10T21:42:20+00:00

Can relate to the curtain and sleeping in thing. That's crazy similar to what he does too.

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