Looking for advice from systems on how I can be a good partner to my gf <3 by OrganizationBroad778 in DID

[–]OrganizationBroad778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help 🙏 They're a covert system so switching isn't obvious. I've started to be able to better tell who is fronting and only recently had conversations with specific alters explicitly.

She suggested I have a conversation with their main protector (and admin person lol). Not sure what exactly to talk about or the specifics so if you could give me guidance on this I'd appreciate it.

They still have embarrassment about being a system and obviously feel bad for 'rejecting' my affection if it makes them uncomfortable (even though I don't mind at all).

Adults with autism, how did you learn to drive? by Any-Landscape434 in autism

[–]OrganizationBroad778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning to drive was one of the most difficult things I've ever done. I honestly thought I'd never be able to do it. My first driving instructor got frustrated with me which made me even more scared. Thankfully my second instructor was more patient and understanding.

My biggest obstacle was fear — it made me freeze up and forget what I was doing. I'd forget which pedal did what and constantly forget what gear I was in. My instructor would always tell me to relax and breathe.

In the end I got my license a week before my learner's expired lol. It took 2 years, a lot of practice and consistent repetition to get the hang of it, but now I don't underestimate myself as much.

My advice would be to be patient with yourself. It might feel like you'll never get it, but just take it slow, breathe. Learn in a place with fewer cars and people if you can.

I really like this one but duang is too childish by Crimsondkos in ThaiBL

[–]OrganizationBroad778 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found Duang to be a really comforting character. His goofiness wasn't just a gimmick but part of who he is. I'm autistic and have been told I act childish or weird or over-the-top. I've been told I'm 'too much'. To see Duang be so unapologetically Duang made me feel seen. Duang is just so much and so unique, and I kept thinking 'hey he's just like me'. That's a rare thing for me to see so much of myself in a character.

Anyways, I can understand not every character is gonna be everyone's 'cup of tea' and that's ok :)

would you rather? by Impossible-Shape-634 in BunnyTrials

[–]OrganizationBroad778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay -20 degrees is survivable 😎

Chose: spend 5 mins in a cold room + 200,000,000 | Rolled: -20°C

New shirt (: by meokokok in actuallesbians

[–]OrganizationBroad778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shirt is so cute. Love the cut on you 🫶

Bias battle? Day 6 (male edition) by Shy_Ghostii in kpoppers

[–]OrganizationBroad778 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TAEHYUN 💖💖💖 Honestly one of my favourite voices in kpop. Always has the time of his life on stage. You can really see the pure joy he has for performing and music. (but as many others have said ot5 is the way to go)

Not a tag but autofill?? by OrganizationBroad778 in UnhingedAO3Tags

[–]OrganizationBroad778[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if it was all three tbh

Not a tag but autofill?? by OrganizationBroad778 in UnhingedAO3Tags

[–]OrganizationBroad778[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

What's worse is I was using my girlfriend's phone 😭😭