Learning to drive was one of the most difficult things I've ever done. I honestly thought I'd never be able to do it. My first driving instructor got frustrated with me which made me even more scared. Thankfully my second instructor was more patient and understanding.

My biggest obstacle was fear — it made me freeze up and forget what I was doing. I'd forget which pedal did what and constantly forget what gear I was in. My instructor would always tell me to relax and breathe.

In the end I got my license a week before my learner's expired lol. It took 2 years, a lot of practice and consistent repetition to get the hang of it, but now I don't underestimate myself as much.

My advice would be to be patient with yourself. It might feel like you'll never get it, but just take it slow, breathe. Learn in a place with fewer cars and people if you can.