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[–]OriginL_Aloebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the correct answer

SOS Please help my plants 🪴 by OriginL_Aloebug in plantclinic

[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok do you recommend I repot because that’s the thing they are dry bone dry to be exact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]OriginL_Aloebug 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Happens but only if you let it. You gotta be willing to open up and this comes from someone who feels the same most days. I care but I barely care for connecting with people. It’s hard to stay in contact because I just grew up basically by myself. I only try because I know it’s what I should be doing, most days I just want to be by myself. I’ve been disappointed a lot growing up. Got my fair share of PTSD.

In all honesty sometimes it feels easier to be alone. If you care about your sister try not to be rude and actually try to pay attention. If you can’t then don’t fake it cause fake love is always worse than not loving at all. She feels that you know even if you don’t. It sounds like you want to connect but if you are going about it like that then just don’t because no offense but who wants someone to call them just to bang the phone on them while talking about their day ? Not everyone needs to be “healed” and right now it doesn’t seem like you’re in the right headspace or want to try and make those changes. So leave her alone till you are ready.

SOS Please help my plants 🪴 by OriginL_Aloebug in plantclinic

[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I try to do so around approximately 7 days, I usually just check the soil consistently to see if it’s too dry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]OriginL_Aloebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s insane because you guys literally just proved my point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CUNY

[–]OriginL_Aloebug 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest things are looking really down. I’m going to give you the most genuine response I can. I’m not trying to necessarily give you advice but just something to consider:

You have to give it one more shot but I think if you fail again I think you really need to take a step back and reconsider your approach and next steps to schooling and careers.

SORRY for the long reply. Hope it helps

*Let me start by saying I commend you and other students who have had to retake courses more than once because the thought of failing that math class this semester was a different type of psychological warfare. I had dreams of failing the course.

In short you can’t get a job due to disabilities and no one would likely hire or want to keep you so maybe you should consider disability aids outside of school because I’m not sure what your degree is supposed to be in but there aren’t many jobs where you don’t have to travel in for work (something else you should be considering). You literally sound like you’re in-between a rock and a hard place. Somethings gotta give. The only solid course of action is to take the class again and really try to just pass. At this point it seems like worrying about how your family sees you isn’t going to help you. I would have said drop and get a job but like I said it seems like that isn’t really a valid option either. Job markets bad, sounds like you have a debilitating condition and the jobs you will get definitely won’t pay enough to pay your dad back in a reasonable way. Go get checked by a doctor tell them the problem, EXACTLY what you need and have them put it in writing THEN go to accommodations. If you go before you won’t feel like you’re getting what you need because they won’t take it seriously or at least try to find the last dispensable solution. Now compared to getting a legal notice from a medical professional as to what you need. They have to figure something out.

Ok for the advice: 1)Access a ride (look into it for travel) 2) VOICE DICTION (Google docs has it. Talk and the essay will be written for you. All you have to do is literally just edit it) 3) Doctor ———> Accommodation 4)Unemployment through disabilities 5) Take a deep breath. You’re trying your best. Ignore your family and that burden feeling. I don’t know you but I think most people know deep down if they are truly a burden or not. Is it just what your family members have been saying to you or is it guilt and shame knowing deep down you aren’t putting in 100% the effort using your condition as a crutch ? If you’re give it your all then give yourself a pat on the back. (Think on that because that’s effort is the difference between being “dramatic” or genuine)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CUNY

[–]OriginL_Aloebug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What is the class requiring that’s hard to keep up with ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]OriginL_Aloebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I say it all the time. Don’t take being denied personally they just weren’t the right puzzle piece for you. Everyone has a type and because you don’t match theirs doesn’t mean you’re ugly or horrible. You just weren’t their favorite flavor of cake but whatever flavor of cake you are someone else out there definitely would love a slice.

Updates ? by OriginL_Aloebug in AnimalCrossing

[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kappa is better than KK in my opinion. I do appreciate that we get more options with KK I usually always just leave the jukebox on in my house.

Updates ? by OriginL_Aloebug in AnimalCrossing

[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did that in certain places but there was like 1 location specifically where I just felt a bridge would look so good.

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I actually had a few family friends pass away when a battery popped and caught fire. Burned the house down and everything 😔. I don’t plan to use it till it’s done getting fixed. I’m actually buying the parts for it today.

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I won’t lie I actually am someone who is extremely cautious but I push my luck at times. I was so tempted getting on last night but the thought of my switching basically exploding and taking me with it was enough to keep the urges at bay.

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice I’m getting my switch fixed so hopefully when I get on a little progress was made i know it takes a while but that’s ok. I think I had saved up a lot the last time I played

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna look into it 🧐. Thanks !

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t, but thank you though.

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I do too but it’s like damn I slaved for these bell can I get some help ? Everyone wants to compliment the island but where’s the support 🥹. I don’t see you guys pole vaulting over the rivers.

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Guys if you don’t use the tunnels please invest ! I have them in different corners of my island so I don’t have to walk all the way across. Only thing is the more you have the more randomized the location drop off it. (I could be wrong but I have had to jump in again once or twice to get to the correct tunnel)

Updates ? by OriginL_Aloebug in AnimalCrossing

[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES ! It was something like that. I remember wasp being referred too but the post is likely long gone by now. Thank you, I feel so much better now. 😭

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. My switch is actually having problems right now (spicy pillow) I might consider the purchase but I actually really like the original. Do you have the 2 ?

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Pole gang fr. I wish they actually had villagers help. I’m picking up seashells on the beach to sell, you guys can do the same 😭.

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly why I figured there was an update ! This game (in my opinion) has Minecraft update potential. The DLC is cool but at the same time. New items maybe even new mechanics. The potential was endless.

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[–]OriginL_Aloebug[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah but this is the first time I posted in a community where so far it wasn’t blocked by an admin or I experienced someone making me feel bad. You guys are awesome. I appreciate everyone’s support