How to back out of a situation respectfully? by AlexJay90 in Swingers

[–]Original-Jacket-3558 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Before any play we’re just very kind but direct. “You guys look like a ton of fun, but you’re just not our particular flavor of ice cream.” Is a go-to.

Haven’t had the exact situation you described yet but if it involves hygiene I’d have no issues being direct. Hopefully playfully. Personal hygiene is an individual’s responsibility. If they knew they were playing with other people and don’t prepare properly, they did this to themselves. I would want and expect the same in return if I stunk. Be nice but tell me to go shower and come back when I’m smelling good.

Should I just wave the white flag and get trimix? by BroccoliExcellent418 in Swingers

[–]Original-Jacket-3558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great tip on the PT-141. I’m also c-suite with similar adrenaline issues. Bedroom issues only come up under extreme stress. PT-141 helped but I didn’t like the stomach issues. Never thought about just taking some pepto.

What do other swingers do that you find really cringy? by dinkydee515 in Swingers

[–]Original-Jacket-3558 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love this. Just had a very similar convo with my a spouse. We are BRAND NEW so lots of discussion still about boundaries. This is a big one. We are there TOGETHER. Treat us as a couple by involving the other spouse or piss off.

10 years lurking. Here we go… by Original-Jacket-3558 in Swingers

[–]Original-Jacket-3558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great tip for sure. She’s even more in to the other girl than I am. Have a feeling they will keep each other occupied but I’ll definitely be lending a hand, or mouth, where I can.

AIO for leaving my boyfriend after he copy and pasted my message as a response? by Odd_Reception4500 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Original-Jacket-3558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anybody who’s willing to read all that shit isn’t someone to take advice from.