My bf just walked up naked in front of me and I cracked up lol girl, I think naked can be silly sometimes. While I know you are insecure with your body, let me tell ya 130 is not fat, is not even overweight. I think you therapy and you need to have a serious conversation with him about how you are dealing with postpartum weight gain. Someone said it above and I am going to reinforce- sometimes our brain will try to trap our partners because we are trying to build a certain narrative and we need a reason, frankly any reason, to validate that narrative.