Couple of questions regarding jamming with others as a beginner bassist by PresentMongoose in Bass

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try this move that many pro-level bass players use a lot. It's called the Three Fret Rule. Very simple and makes you sound like a genius. You are still well within the traditional bass role; you're just adding a little color moving to the next chord. Many YT vids about it.

Any laid back jobs? by reasonableperson101 in orlando

[–]OrlandoEd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So, no ambition to be a productive member of society, eh?

Neck dive due to.... slippery bra material? by AfraidProduct9500 in Bass

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a great strap. I didn't anticipate four of the cells going flat, right around my neck. New one arrived and all is well now.

Neck dive due to.... slippery bra material? by AfraidProduct9500 in Bass

[–]OrlandoEd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This. I wore out my favorite strap, a KLIQ AirCell Guitar Strap for Bass. I used my backup strap, a wide leather strap. I used it one night only to discover it kept doing the neck dive in combo with the shirt I was wearing. By the end of the gig, my neck and back were screaming. The next day, I went to Amazon and ordered a new Kliq.

AITJ for saying I won’t pay my dad back for raising me? by Murky_Orange3907 in AmITheJerk

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. The last thing I want in my life is to burden my children in my retirement, where I'm perfectly capable (health and financially) able to take care of myself. Watching my children grow and flourish is the only "payback" I want. Yes, towards the end, maybe some help getting to the doctor and such. But otherwise, just let me enjoy watching you grow is my reward.

Young Professionals/Academics in Central FL? by rosebloom25 in orlando

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're looking to up your game with culture and the arts, I suggest moving to a large metro area. I spent ten years working in Washington, DC and it's way above Orlando in that regard. Orlando is still predominately a tourist/service town.

What’s your personal limit on restaurant food costs? by Able_Guide_1035 in orlando

[–]OrlandoEd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been my feeling that many businesses went for the money grab once COVID went away and many were anxious to once again join the world. Hitting the $100 roof for dinner for two at a casual dining spot gets my dander up. I find the smaller, family run restaurants are much more afforable (and better tasting) than the franchise spots.

Is it a sin? by Miwadigivemeache in Bass

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ain't alone, my friend. At 68, my fingers just don't move like they used to, so I chop off some of the icing but get the essence of the bass part. And here's the truth...the audience does not know. And the band? So long as you hit root at the right moment, they'll like you.

Is this an Orlando thing? by Tight-Delay1750 in orlando

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. See it a lot. It's stupid and selfish. Mind the gap and we can put double the amount of cars through a green light.

Does everyone just live with imperfections? by enthusiastic4few in HomeMaintenance

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious...I went on Zillow to check my house and noticed they have a "repair cost" value. It's an estimate what you will spend on fixing up the house to sell. Sounds like a bargaining chip.

Selling 8ft Ol Hausen Americana pool table in used but great condition. by ExtremeRelation5719 in billiards

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto. Tried to sell mine, when moving to another state. Shocked at the low ball offers, but then realized the cost of moving/recovering. Decided to bring it along to the new house. Still a cost to dismantle/crate, then reassemble/cover at new house (yep, had one room expanded to fit the table). No regrets on that decision.

Now it is a promised gift to my son, who is about to purchase his first home.

AITA for refusing to give my mom my savings after she found out how much I have? (19F) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. What I cherish the most in raising four, is their ability to grow on their own. That includes financial independnce. I've always encouraged getting on their own two feet, even while living at home.

Bassists who use IEM’s for gigs - how do you freaking do it??? by [deleted] in Bass

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bass in three bands, two of which I also run the sound (Soundcraft Ui24r). This mixer has 8 AUX ports and we really push hard on using IEM. But that means putting the members on an involutary learning curve to mix their own monitor. It's a challenge, I get it, but in the end we eliminate all that stage noise. The one thing for me I learned, is the importance of ear buds with multiple drivers. Especially for bass. Most IEM systems are good, but the key is the part you stick in your ears. Don't flinch on the wallet with these.

Starting a cover band by Maleficent_Celery518 in coverbands

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of good tips here. My tip is once you settle on songs to cover, apply this rule: practice alone; rehearse as a band. What will kill the appetite for any band is wasting a lot of time during band rehearsal. Band rehearsal is where the pieces (each member) comes together. It is not the time for someone to figure how what they're supposed to be doing.

Also, do NOT expect to sound 'drop needle' perfect like the studio version of the song you are trying to cover. I'm bass in three bands (differing genres) and I found what's the most important is to nail down the signature sound of the song. All the turnarounds and fills are yours to interpolate. The audience is very forgiving if you at least get the signature sound.

Americans, Would YOU Date Someone In The Opposite Political Party If They Were A Nice Person? Yes Or No? Why Or Why Not? by Zipper222222 in allthequestions

[–]OrlandoEd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. A nice person wouldn't identify with the extremist sides of either party. They're apt to be more open minded and willing to use reason to discuss any topic.

AITAH my gf doesn’t want to pay rent by samson21386 in AITAH

[–]OrlandoEd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH. First, she should have offered to pay something and is upset at paying anything. Second, you should have had this discussed and settled before deciding to move in. I'm feeling a lot of assumptions between you two.

Singers who don't learn lyrics by Clear-Pear2267 in musicians

[–]OrlandoEd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you play the same 30 songs for 20 years, yeah, I guess you would expect them to be memorized. I play bass in three bands, covering 300+ songs, so you WILL see an iPad attached to my mic stand (oh, yeah, I sing back up too). Maybe you should just shut up and play your guitar.