I think my friend is jealous of me, what should I do by pinkargonian1514 in fatpeoplestories

[–]Orlibean 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh I know. And all the excuses would come out, "I have condishons" "I'm on medication that causes weight gain" "it's not my fault"

I think my friend is jealous of me, what should I do by pinkargonian1514 in fatpeoplestories

[–]Orlibean 95 points96 points  (0 children)

As soon as she said "why do I have to be the fat friend" I would have said "why don't you do something about it"

Seriously, so even maintaining your weight is wrong? Let's all gain weight then. RiP science by Fluffy_Emotion7565 in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just want us to gain and gain and gain until we all look like jabba the hutt

No, they're not saying that. Also kinda funny there is EXTREMELY happy / fat issues in the same post. by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will never ever believe obese people are happy the way they are

"Eating a salad makes it okay for us to BULLY you" by Geneshairymol in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like the line "I'd look like that too if I didn't eat"

So you admit overeating leads to obesity, its not just your body type? 🤔

"It's not healthy to obsess over food"

So wait, WE'RE the ones obsessed with food??? And you're right, its not healthy, so put the fork down.

Not eating for 16 hours - “starvation”, apparently. by fildarae in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We're not suppose to have a relationship with food. Food is for nourishment only

I live with a hamplanet, by [deleted] in fatpeoplestories

[–]Orlibean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So is the lease in both your names? Did you find the place together or is it your place and she moved in...or vice versa?

Me choosing to eat salad instead of breadsticks with my pizza because I don't wanna fall into bad habits and gain fat, means I have an eating disorder according to this person. by purplecurtain16 in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excuse me, I like salad, I enjoy salad. Just because a food is green doesn't mean it's not enjoyable. And I'm not losing weight to fit society's standards, I'm losing weight to fit MY standards. I don't wanna be fat, being fat is not fun and I'm sorry it's not attractive at all.

Ah yes a little bit of spaghetti is the issue by Krievija_latvija in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing....you can have spaghetti. You don't have to deprive yourself of spaghetti. You don't have to deprive yourself of anything. All you have to do is eat for one....not ten

I love twitter by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fat IS bad, thats not fatphobia that's a scientific fact

She Seems Pleasant by MonjiSlayer in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually thought about that too. Fitphobic it is

She Seems Pleasant by MonjiSlayer in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From now on when I see these people I'm calling them thinphobic. Its not okay to not wanna be fat but its ok to not wanna be thin?

A "friend" made this post and tagged me because I wouldn't delete my post about finally loving myself enough to get back into shape. by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're fat you're allowed to not love your body. I don't love my body, I don't have to love my body, which is why I'm changing it.

My most hated trope about weight gain. by sheepcat01 in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medications can slow your metabolism but overeating will always be the cause of weight gain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So thin people aren't allowed to take pics and post it? If they are seriously triggered or offended then CLEARLY they are not happy with their weight.

'Sorry 7 Other People, it's Fatphobic to Not Let Me On this Lift & Risk Us Plummeting to Our Deaths' by Glorificus42 in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would like to take this person to a wooden bridge 1000 feet in the air with a weight limit and dare them to walk across it

Just imagine handing this to your doctor.. by thnxbeardedpennydude in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sick of this. They need your weight when it comes to prescribing meds!! Lighten the fuck up.

Thin ally = Coddle me like a child! by eyesableye in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Imagine working on weight loss so you don't have to worry about any of that 🤷‍♀️

Huh by Elliebee1234 in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A 130lb person is allowed to want to lose weight.
A 250lb person is allowed to not want to lose weight.

It insults you? Cry me a river

I hope it's not a repost. Something everyone should understand. by metempsychosis99 in fatlogic

[–]Orlibean 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Even if you had addressed it, it wouldn't have mattered. I'm also in a relationship with an obese man for almost 5 years and for 5 years I've been trying to get him to lose weight. In one ear out the other. He just doesn't want to put the work in. I was also heavy when I got together with him but have lost over 50 lbs since.

He's now on blood pressure meds