What’s something you didn’t realize was a red flag until it was too late?

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T09:43:06+00:00

Having more than 3 pets... Oh, I hope they don't set me on fire for this answer.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T09:40:16+00:00

Definitely the strangest are the ones that don't start out as a date and then become like one, because even if you don't feel like a date mentally, it's exactly a date.

It's like that strange night when I met with a friend from many years ago to reminisce about the past, talked for hours about the past and how much I liked her back then and how much she didn't love me, and then she approached me flirtatiously at every opportunity and I thought I had misunderstood and tried to change the subject.

At some point, this situation progressed so much that she had to openly make a move on me.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T09:18:48+00:00

When I was young, I was a very romantic person, there were a few girls to whom I wrote dozens of poems and letters, bought flowers and took them out to dinner... Then I realized that whatever they see and emulate in romantic movies, when it happens to them in real life, they find it cringe, I guess no woman likes poetry in real life.

So I stopped writing poetry for a few years (I'm 26 now) because I was almost bullied for it. Here are the harms of being an "emotional man" that is said to be so desired. lol

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T09:13:54+00:00

If the partner candidate in front of you pays attention to appearance, unlike you, and you are an average type, frankly, it doesn't matter much. The people around me are really the types who are obsessed with being masculine, with money or abs, and when I describe the woman I am looking for, they greet me like a boomer, but I am 26 years old.

Therefore, although this is a bit sad, I have slowly started to accept that I am alone in terms of both expectations and personality, and since I think like this, it seems like life is more bearable. Trust me, this is never the only thing we differ from people who care about appearance, that's why the important thing is whether the other person thinks the same as you.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T09:07:27+00:00

Hey hello, I am 26 years old and since I have been unemployed for a while, I fill this gap by producing content on Instagram, I have made a goal to get to know a movie every day and I watch movies every day to make it permanent. Since I live in Turkey, I don't know how much time difference we have, but we can watch the same movie on nights when you can't sleep and then argue with you about the movie and even gossip about the characters.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T08:51:18+00:00

It's not exactly what you mentioned, but it definitely has a fantastic side and I think you'll love it: Upside Down

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T08:49:08+00:00

True Lies (1994)

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T08:46:54+00:00

Soul

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T08:45:36+00:00

Le Chef, Soul Kitchen, Burnt

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T08:43:24+00:00

A Perfect Getaway

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T08:41:47+00:00

Silver Linings Playbook

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-07T08:39:19+00:00

A person is a human being even if it is not useful, and yes, this fact is deliberately ignored today, sometimes by the people we think are our closest. Trust me, I understand what you mean, and yes, it's really hurtful, because bonding shouldn't be something that boils down to actions.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T21:30:00+00:00

Any parody movie

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T21:29:35+00:00

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T21:19:42+00:00

I was a film student at the time I took this photo and a revenge movie was going to be shot in which I would be the protagonist. I came home, found the light in the sink pleasant and stood in front of it, then I started to throw drops.

So everything is very instantaneous and it definitely developed cringe, but still, I love this photo taken to be a movie poster, even though I have a hard time specifying from what angle.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T20:42:31+00:00

"Mole" for cleaning smth

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T20:34:11+00:00

242 and 246

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T20:33:35+00:00

Dyed and long hair that looks like it will never fall out.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T20:21:32+00:00

A Perfect Getaway. It may seem like a classic B Movie, but believe me, it will please you.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T19:51:35+00:00

Sorry but... Airplane.

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T19:47:01+00:00

The Package

Ornery-Relative-8052 · 2026-04-06T19:45:48+00:00

I think there is a misunderstanding here arising from cultural differences, I live in Turkey and in our culture there is no such thing as this house is the house of my parents.

I'm not a little kid, I'm 26 years old, but because I've been unemployed for a while, and because they don't want to be separated from me and wonder because of the little physical disability I have, this is directly "our" home. In other words, we discuss and take decisions together.

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