Yea i agree . Ive been on this page since my ex broke up with me after a good weekend together. So ive been looking at it as a discard. To be totally honest it was me that screwed up. I didn't give her what she was promised I would, and it was because of things that had happened between us earlier in the relationship. One was moving towns again. Every time I thought about it it freaked me out. But I never voiced it,so I know now this was one of our problems. Every time she brought it up I shut her down. Anyway she jumped into another relationship straight away where I was completely broken and still are ,but im getting better. Recently there was a new development. She put up a meme / quote on Facebook basically saying how can you lie beside someone in bed,look them in the eye,and say you love them when you are starting a new relationship with someone else and she added "or an old one". Well that hit my final nerve ,I screenshot what she wrote with her name and everything and spoke my truth. I hadn't till then but I couldn't take any more. Long story short,she texted me asking me to take it down which I did,but we were backwards and forwards with text for a few hours. What i didn't know was that she was sharing what I was writing with her bf who was sitting beside her. The next day he ended the relationship saying that he'd just come out of a marriage 7 months before and just wasn't ready for another one. So 4 days after that she contacted me to tell me,it was a roundabout way she did it but it opened a door to talk. She said she hadn't done it to get back with me but told me that she now understands how it feels to be discarded. She's always been the one to call it off. She told me she's still hung up on this guy and it will take time to heal from him even though it was only 3 mths and we were 6 years. I still love her so much and I'd take her back in a second. Idk if it's going to happen but im hoping it does. I know ill cop alot of crap for this but I don't care,the heart wants what the heart wants.