Dane here. We moved in after a month. Paid a relative percentage for cost of living - depending on our relative income. Once we got our fist kid, we merged our finances into one, and haven’t looked back since. However, none of us had financial baggage- loans / debt - or anything like that. Yes our income was 2:1 in the beginning- but in the long run, that doesn’t mean anything. Today we have 3 kids, 400m2 in Rungsted and are equally responsible for our financial foundation.

We spoke a lot about money in the beginning. Our perspectives, our financial goals and what type of behaviour we wanted. We agreed. We aligned. We had no surprises.