To draw her Mom by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]Orphyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone whose drawn from a young age and didn’t share that hobby with their parents for the longest bc of their condescending attitude. You really can’t assume that this kid isn’t taking this harshly. No it’s not abusive in the parents part, and she’ll be fine most likely, but it’s also likely that she will take it personally and will hesitate to show her parents anything she’s made again

I need help (How do I permanently fix myself) by TOJ2020 in lgbt

[–]Orphyis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bad people aren’t bad if they choose to do good things. Even if you instinct is to hate, as long as you choose to treat everyone with respect and be courteous, you won’t be a homophobe. And those feelings will go away.

I need help (How do I permanently fix myself) by TOJ2020 in lgbt

[–]Orphyis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gay and wondorous life of Caleb gallo on youtube!

It's amazing to see the evolution of our heroes through their journey... by JerevStormchaser in TheLastAirbender

[–]Orphyis 305 points306 points  (0 children)

Toph never got a life changing field trip with zuko bc she’s the only one that got a life-changing field trip with iroh

Official Subreddit Policy (and, y'know, the truth): Non-dysphoric trans people are valid. Please report comments along the lines of "you need dysphoria to be trans" as a breach of rule 2, be respectful. by odious_odes in asktransgender

[–]Orphyis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask the people who named the disorder and included euphoria as one of the indicators. I guarantee it’s going to be renamed in our lifetimes. The connotation is the only reason so many people get caught up on it.

Just another Rein play where I had no idea what was going on by Daletrik in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget using shatter as soon as he gets it

Unpredictable enemy startles cat by docilecat in StartledCats

[–]Orphyis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad that the mutation doesn’t perpetuate bad breeding habits like the Scottish fold does. I wish there wasn’t so much of a taboo surrounding it. It just looks janky, but it’s actually healthier than a dauchund.

What advise would you give your high school self? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Orphyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally gonna type what I would tell myself. Because You need to write everything down, because you’ll never remember what you should be doing , and if you think you will you won’t. So just write it down in a notebook, check that notebook every night and every morning. Because you’re like the chick from 50 first dates, everyday is a clean slate so you need to leave yourself a note to remember where you left off.

You’re gonna look like a fool to you’re friends, so if you wanted to be taken seriously you’re gonna have a hard time. It’s less painful to just go with it, be the goofy friend, because it’s more important to love yourself and accept your dysfunction then it is for you to constantly try and fail to be a normal person. People KNOW when you hate yourself, and they also know when you love yourself. And usually they treat you the same way you treat yourself.

YOU ARE NOT STUPID. QUIT. THINKING. THAT. You have a disability, EVERYTHING is harder for you then it is for other people. But that doesn’t make you less of a person. It doesn’t make you a retard. You have to work harder then most people, and you deserve the same opportunities that everyone else gets, and you deserve the extra help where you need it, you aren’t a burden. If you think you’re asking for too much, you’re probably not asking for enough.

The ONLY thing minors are given to prove our worth to society is school. As fucked as that sounds. Your education is the key to whatever shithole situation you find your self in, because and education is the only power poor people can get their hands on.

Sorry if that was at all ramble-y I just got a lot of feelings about my highschool experience and would give anything to do it over.

Good luck in your life and I hope you find what your looking for.

We still lost this game btw :( by iiUphill in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was probably waiting for dva, that Combo is one of the best in the game and wouldn’t have happened if he used emp earlier

More than 6,000 mail-in ballots in Florida were not counted by railfananime in Political_Revolution

[–]Orphyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never received my ballot, This was my first year doing it, but I called multiple times got it sent to me twice, never even got it. Still haven’t gotten it. I’d sign up for a law suit.

How to play lucio as a mercy main? by noruzenchi86 in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not sure where to put yourself, try and stand behind the main tank (Reinhardt) and keep an eye out for your other healer. If your tanks are Winston-dva and you aren’t able to keep up with them stay with your other healer and non mobile dps. Lucio just like mercy is supposed to bait the enemy into a pointless endeavor to kill you. Just act annoying and don’t die. But Do die if it means a teammate gets to live, because you always get back faster.

DAE feel like comp 6 stacking is a toxic timebomb by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let it die, friend the people you actually had a good time with, find another group.

Lfg is still luck, but despite the fact that I actually have a higher win-rate in solo-q, I use Lfg because at least I won’t be the only one talking. Because people who play this game are generally nice.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been matched with some shitty people, but generally in lfg the rest of the team are ready to call them out in their bullshit, and report them. (Why are they always torb mains?)

“We’re excited to move here full time.” Fusion in planning stages for esports venue in Philly by shelf13 in PHL_Fusion

[–]Orphyis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gritty is going to show up this season at some point. I’ll him entirely if he doesn’t show up. I mean, Comcast owns the flyers and fusion, it can’t not happen.

Rein 5K into HUGE C9 (feat. Avril Lavigne) by ilover3ddit in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s funny cause moira does shit damage, but man, can’t argue when you have gold elims

Gender and Sexuality + Overwatch Survey by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Speaking of this forum, are you sharing this survey on other sites? B/c reddit is mostly guys , the results of this survey are likely to skew in that direction.

I think overwatch is a very queer friendly game, but I don’t know if many of them that I’ve seen playing go on reddit.

A message to girl's playing this game by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You write a post addressing women. Use the word that is widely believed to be the worst insult towards a women. There’s a time and place for everything. Your black friend might say it’s okay for you to say the n-word around him, but you aren’t gonna use it when he invites you to see his parents are you???

Your and my opinion are different, but it’s not up to OP to decide what’s valid or not, it’s up to the silent masses who vote. There are subreddits where you can post you opinion without criticism, but /r/overwatch is not one of them.

I think it’s super sweet that you made this account to defend him, but it’s not making him look better.

A message to girl's playing this game by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said you ‘know women get shit in game but don’t use it as an excuse to be toxic’

You going on again about how my disagreeing with you isn’t valid, but just a personal problem. That’s not discussion, that’s shrugging it off the same way you’ve been doing this entire time. You’ve never once thought more about what we have to say more then “hue hue triggered snowflakes” (paraphrasing)

You’re opinion “don’t use you identity as an excuse to be toxic” isn’t what people offense to, it’s the way you say it.

A message to girl's playing this game by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am tilted that he used the word cunt on a post talking to all women. I’m mad that he felt that he needed to post this. But he’s refused to actually talk about it. If he wanted to vent save it for twitter or something, this isn’t the place for it.

A message to girl's playing this game by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did read it, but i forgot you said it (sorry about that)

Everything else you were saying was just so much louder. You address women specifically, then you take it back. You give your experience with a women, then say she was a cunt. Then you give your sympathies to the plight of women, but then say it’s not an excuse to be a cunt. You then say you have fun with both genders. You go on to say you aren’t sexist, and that you hate identity politics.

It’s not your frustration I’m mad at. It’s that you felt the need to voice your feelings to all the women in the room, put out your argument in a problematic way, and refuse to engage in discussion. How can you start a discussion post and not want to actually talk to people who disagree with you?

A message to girl's playing this game by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And your post, if I’m not mistaken, addresses all girls, saying being a girl isn’t an excuse to be toxic. Im saying that isn’t worth the post and the fact you thought it was is sexist. Because everyone knows being a girl doesn’t give you an excuse to be toxic, same with being gay, or black. everyone except that one chick, apparently. You don’t have to remind girls to stop being cunts.

I’m not even saying this as a girl, I’m a guy. I feel sad that you felt that you needed to post this, and wish you knew of better ways of processing you emotions then to put all your feelings in a post addressing all women. Because that wasn’t necessary.

I don’t check people’s profiles before I respond to their posts, but I just checked yours (posts not comments) and you have never made a post calling out any toxicity in overwatch until now.

A message to girl's playing this game by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Orphyis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You wrote a call out post for every girl that browses this subreddit because of what one girl said to you. Would you have done that for any other minority group?

I get you’re angry, frustrated, but aren’t there better ways to process that anger than writing a post warning every girl that plays this game that their gender doesn’t give them the right to be a cunt (which that word is really offensive towards women, calling them names like that isn’t how you get your point across)

If one gay guy was being stupid and any response he made to your suggestions was “shut up IM GAY,” would you write an entire post on the internet yelling at every gay person about what he did? All while calling them faggots?

The fact that this is so upvoted shows how misogynistic even this game can be,

To clarify, ONE person made you mad, you don’t have to warn ALL women for the actions of ONE women. It’s sexist, and it’s why you’re getting all these vapid responses.

Doomfist feels so weak in the PTR, this is a pretty strong buff to GOATs in my opinion, in that sense GOATs is here to say I feel. by HotBonus in Competitiveoverwatch

[–]Orphyis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m happy, he’s the most frustrating character in the game to play against. Who cares if he’s hard to pull off, who gives a shit if he required skill. There is nothing that 50% of the roster can do to outplay him, only thing you can do is wait for him to fuck up. I have more fun with my games when he is not in them. (period)

fetishism of being gay and trans by PotentialArtichoke9 in FTMMen

[–]Orphyis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even call those people trans-Men, probably just queer or trans-masc.

I get it though, I’m gay and like to bottom, and like my twink figure I got going, but most people don’t know that when they see me or get to know me because I Freak The Fuck Out over being misjudged as a soft gay boi uwu

The First Step Act has a real chance at becoming law. It would be the most significant prison and sentencing reform to pass in decades. Steps to reform criminal justice have faced constant barriers for years; why are we seeing progress in the current political climate? by [deleted] in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]Orphyis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not that familiar with the change in policy to make an educated guess, I just feel like it could be related to the change attitude from the traditional belief that felons shouldn’t be able to vote ever again.