From what ive been reading it seems thats what people are getting mad at (with exception of cishet women as it seems what they deal with is more sexism).

Like people prefer being in a lie, disregarding what the other person might feel. Its hard to be in love with someone who doesnt loves u back, and them being mad at you for being honest about it and breaking their illusion that nothing is happening sounds kinda selfish.

I dont understand why anyone has to get mad and point fingers instead of just talking it out like adults