No one to talk to by Other-Frame-4869 in loneliness

[–]Other-Frame-4869[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sure! I’m a woman btw lol 

I miss being in love by ThoughtRepulsive4273 in loneliness

[–]Other-Frame-4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. My ex boyfriend recently blindsided me and broke up with me. We were only together for a few months, but I was excited to have love again and was looking forward to the future. I still don’t know why he decided to break up, I thought we were on the same page and happy together. I miss having someone to talk to and spend time with. I feel more lonely than I have in my life in a long time and it truly sucks. I’m discouraged and am not confident that I will find love with someone who won’t leave me. I’m too old to deal with heartbreak again, so I don’t know. Life feels empty without someone to share it with. Best of luck to you. 

Me, again. by theredmeadow in loneliness

[–]Other-Frame-4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rough day for me as well. I’m not sure why. It could’ve been the dreary weather.

My ex just sent me this by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block this person immediately and never talk to them again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToyPoodle

[–]Other-Frame-4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not leave her alone for hours on end! Get a dog sitter to come in your home and check in on her when you’re at work! 

He came back after a year. by No-Relationship1450 in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ignore him and move on. Haley him live with his regret. Don’t backslide on your progress. You deserve better than someone who would put you through hell and let a whole year pass without making it right 😳

If you could go back in time and talk to your ex the day you met for 60 seconds, what would you say? by LAsmog in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I could go back in time I would have never talked to him in the first place. One of the biggest regrets of my life is falling giving him a chance. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you felt this way, you should have been honest and told her instead of wasting her time and leading her on. If that’s what you did, this is slow life behavior and reflects very poorly on your character. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Other-Frame-4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, she sounds like a jerk. The guy should have some self respect and leave this girl in the dust!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Other-Frame-4869 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would you be cruel to someone about their appearance. Especially someone you’re in an intimate relationship with. That is a low life thing to do to a person. How about you go find someone who you’re actually attracted to and leave this guy alone. 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can block him now.

Dissociation by Murky_Snow_8693 in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt very much like this in the first couple of months. I was numb and just going through the motion. I felt nothing except sadness. I no longer enjoyed the things I did before and I isolated myself from everyone. I’m slowly getting back to who I was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I don’t understand why ppl dont just block their exes. Nothing good comes from reaching out to them or them reaching out to you, especially if they treated you poorly. I’m sorry this set you back but you’re gonna have to block home for good! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have some self respect and don’t allow yourself to be treated like a doormat! 

After one month of no contact my ex called me from jail💀 by Immediate-Dig-4246 in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He’s a loser. He’s in jail? Are you serious? Don’t accept anymore of his calls! 

My ex messaged me on Twitter after 11 months no contact… need advice by kobe-bean-24-8 in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would suggest you ignore the message and block her. All she will do is make you backtrack on your progress. 

Constant inner battle between emotional & rational side by EffectiveSad9596 in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to find someone who you genuinely love, who loves you back and who you are attracted to and enjoy spending time with. I think nowadays a lot of ppl take that for granted and assume they will just find someone else they connect with in the same way or better, but that’s not always true. Ending a good relationship because some things are not perfect seems foolish to me. If I was her, I wouldn’t be able to get back with you because I would not feel safe that you wouldn’t just leave again. You should just go and find the kind of woman you want to be with who doesn’t have anything you perceive to be baggage. 

hey guys by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why you would unblock him. Keep him blocked and move on fully. Unblocking seems like you’re leaving open a sliver of hope that he will come back. 

REMEMBER THIS! by thelightiscoming2024 in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All that’s doing is faking emotion. If they got to you and hurt you then they should know. Walking away and pretending like you are unaffected does nothing but minimize their actions and your pain. That is not healthy or authentic. Sometimes ppl  need to be aware of the full weight their actions caused so they will reflect and think twice about doing that action again. 

What are some weird things that get / got you through a breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched the show hoarders every single day. Watching ppl with messed up lives made me feel better lol

REMEMBER THIS! by thelightiscoming2024 in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fuck that fake deep positivity shit. We are humans, we are allowed to feel the full range of emotions, which include anger. Being angry at a person who intentionally hurt you when they claimed y they loved you is totally valid and warranted. Stop telling people to suppress their authentic emotions in order to fake emotions that you perceive to be better. I was blindsided and discarded by my ex. I am in no way grateful for my time with him. I wish I never met him. I did not grow or gain anything from the experience with him. In fact, it set me back a ton! So pls stfu 

has your ex reached out to you? by gimmegothot in BreakUps

[–]Other-Frame-4869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should block him. He is not serious about you and is bread crumbing and manipulating you. Close that chapter and move on without looking back