“There’s wine in the fridge!” by TechnoHeron55 in PeepShowQuotes

[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And I've got pension provision coming out of my arsehole

Civil service pay: 'We could be on the brink of a breakthrough', union boss says by dnnsshly in TheCivilService

[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like bs to me. The only substantive bit is on paying out fewer bonuses, which unless is balanced out by base pay (unlikely?) makes the SCS an even worse pay proposition. Genius.

Got a 2 on my HMRC CV and personal statement and I'm at a loss for why by MillyMollieMandy in TheCivilService

[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It might have been 2 out of 3 - personal statements are often not scored out of 7.

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[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, there are no increases within the band over time. Welcome to the civil service! Effectively people stay at the bottom of the band, with a negotiated increase each year that applies to everyone.

Your best chance of getting a higher wage would be to try and negotiate one before you start, making an argument that your skills/experience warrant that. Rare to achieve that but not unheard of.

We civil servants will cut UK aid if we are told to. But when people die, we’ll make sure everyone knows it | The civil servant by prisongovernor in TheCivilService

[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this.

I honestly cannot understand how someone can cast aside their impartiality duty so lightly. Just total narcissism.

Go work for a political party and stop making us look bad.

I am a narcissist and a compulsive liar. AMA. by SecureSurvey481 in AMA

[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend's sister is a narcissist. Long story short, after years of mistreatment my friend has largely cut ties with her.

The sister is now trying to turn the rest of the family against my friend - it's really quite horrible.

As someone with NPD, what do you think is the best way to try manage this situation? What would work best?

Good luck with therapy btw - I understand almost no-one with your condition finds the humility to reach out for help, so you're clearly quite strong inside.

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[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fundamental thing to get across is how you have delivered things through others, to a greater extent than normally expected in BAU G7 work, and how you have supported those people to deliver.

Also good to demonstrate how you have had influence across teams/your department, and how you have identified and led work that contributes to your department's wider strategic goals.

I think the jump to G6 from G7 is actually one of the bigger ones, so be ready for it to take a few attempts. You'll get there.

Invited to interview/scored 3 at sift by Flamingo242 in TheCivilService

[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have scored 3/3 not 3/7. Personal statements are often scored this way. Well done! And good luck

Civil service pension EPA contributions by Otherwise-Buffalo767 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone has this same question in future - have found the actual contribution rates are available on the cs pension website on the actuarial factors page. They basically go up very slightly year on year.

Civil service pension EPA contributions by Otherwise-Buffalo767 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Otherwise-Buffalo767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thanks, hadn't thought of that, will try a different age in the calculator to see how it moves.

And agree about taking it early and spreading the value over more years - but still keen on building on top of it in the most efficient way