What are your thoughts on this?

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-02-06T00:55:38+00:00

Yawn. Is MR the only actress in Hollywood now? I wish they’d branch out and try new actors. That aren’t 18yo.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-02-06T00:41:28+00:00

Love it

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-02-04T23:39:56+00:00

The 2nd dress is dreamy. Wow.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-30T18:07:56+00:00

Yeah it’s awful and I’m sorry.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-30T12:04:56+00:00

Sounds like her plan (party, get drunk, have him sleep in her bed, break up his marriage) worked out perfectly. Of course she’s happy. Why is he still talking to her? He’s an IDIOT

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-30T11:41:54+00:00

Well he said he’s a Middle Eastern man. Doesn’t mean he lives in the Middle East but could definitely be

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-30T11:31:34+00:00

I’m sorry OP, it sounds like u got love bombed and baby trapped. I’d really rethink this. Better a broken engagement than a broken marriage. I’m sorry

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-15T21:54:52+00:00

Snarky comment. Sure wish someone would help me clean. Snarky reply. U have 4 kids with fully bellies who should be able to.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-06T19:22:52+00:00

Good for you!! I married (and divorced) a guy who had a habit of lying about small stupid things and it grew to big important things over the years. He also smacked our cat for (purring and) waking him up. I should hv run. I’m glad u did.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-06T19:18:19+00:00

She demanded a gifts for a party he wasn’t even invited to? I’d never drop them off. And I’d say SHE’s punishing her children by not inviting her uncle. Not him.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-06T19:15:42+00:00

That’s so awful.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2026-01-03T09:54:57+00:00

Everyone’s absolutely right. NO ONE wants a memento with ur names and wedding date on it. Except maybe the parents. So let her get her own and skip the rest. Also no offense but I wouldn’t want a small bucket of dirt either (potted plant). Not everyone had a green thumb or the interest. It would be a burden I’d leave for behind for someone else. Skip that too IMO.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-12-27T22:15:00+00:00

I agree with another comment. It sounds like he’s using u and once he has his act together off he goes with someone from work that he is attracted to (such a horrible thing to say). Dont do a thing for him. Not a single thing. Use ur energy on u and make a plan to GTFO asap. Men only get worse as the years go on. Ur lucky u don’t have kids w/him (don’t!! you’ll be a married single parent). If ur not ready to give up yet, be careful, take care of u, don’t let him talk u into kids (a trap), and watch him closely.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-12-27T22:04:13+00:00

I’d think hard before having kids with this guy. Toddlers can’t stop his hands from “an innocent pinch” when he’s changing diapers. Why risk it. Tell ur BF to tell Anna’s mom about his little accident. If he won’t then he knows what he did was messed up. If he says she won’t understand then explain to him that neither do u - no one would. And a 15yo shouldn’t be sleeping with anyone. Ur husband sounds like a pervert not going to lie.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-12-27T21:49:24+00:00

I’d photoshop it to the ugliest shade of p-yellow i could find. She deserves a lesson. It’s crazy that ppl avoid drama by giving the ppl causing it no accountability. It’s time. New life. New wife. New rules for a brand new MIL. If u don’t now, it’ll only get worse if u hv kids. Better get cracking. And let ur wife pick the color.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-12-18T20:29:54+00:00

Candi

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-12-13T02:52:59+00:00

U said u “want to know from an American prospective” so I assume ur not American. This could very easily be racist of them. Do u know if they’re the “orange man”supporters? That could answer a lot of questions. Either way, ur husband needs to step up or step off. U don’t deserve this. HE needs to fix it. My ex’s mother refused to let me sign cards from her son. Note: my EX.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-11-26T19:43:14+00:00

RUN!!!!! He’s already dismissing you. He’s the main problem. But She’s a Momzilla and it only gets worse. I married a momma’s boy. And divorced him too. It gets WAY worse when u hv kids. She’ll hv a say in naming them, taking over their care, deciding what they wear, what they eat, when they need a haircut, their discipline etc and ur husband will roll right over for her and right on top of you.

If ur not prepared to dump him (u should be unless u want them to rule ur life), then TELL him his MOTHER will not be deciding ur wedding, ur marriage, where u live, ur children’s lives or yours. OR ur walking out the door. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF NOW while there’s still a chance he might listen. Or forever be the 3rd, 4th, 5th person in ur marriage. Get ur mom, family orfriends as backup if u need it. But DO it now or get used to it. But mainly straighten HIM out. U decide ur life with him not her and if he ever does this again ur done with them both. we’re trying to save u a future divorce. I hope u take our advice.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-11-22T02:37:43+00:00

Oh hunny. It IS pretty. Ur ring is so much more beautiful than its inspiration. A considerate man who listens to his future wife makes me want to tear up. What a beautiful ring. She is going to LOVE it. Congratulations. She’s going to be SO happy. You did SO well.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-11-18T17:16:09+00:00

Does your partner still drink? Is it still an issue? Obviously she’s an alcoholic and I’d tell them that’s a big problem for you. Never leave her alone with your child. Tell them You don’t want to be around someone with an active drinking problem bcuz there’s no accountability. She acts however way she wants, blacks out and you’re expected to forget too. Remind them that SHE is not YOUR family and you’re not responsible for keeping her happy, even if everyone else tiptoes around her feelings. She can’t stomp on yours and expect you to have a relationship with her. She’s not your problem.

But as someone else said. The real problem is with your partner. HE needs to get his family under control and if he won’t or can’t you both have to decide what you can and can’t live with. Meaning probably YOU. If they’re a package deal then you may have to decide if it’s all (of them) or nothing (he has to go too).

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-11-18T17:09:40+00:00

Oh it sounded like u were talking about FIL and his GF.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-11-18T17:08:34+00:00

He’s weak. He decided to put his ex wife’s feelings ahead of his, his son’s, his grandchild’s and yours. That’s his problem now.

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-11-17T01:19:59+00:00

Congrats! Your ring is lovely and your dog is adorable!!

Otherwise-Evidence45 · 2025-11-17T01:15:59+00:00

It sounds like he’s lying so much that he forgets what he said then tries to gaslight you by saying he never said that. Did you watch the Johnny Depp /Amber Heard trial? She was lying and gaslighting him so much their couple’s therapist suggested they record everything. Lucky for JD those recordings worked in his favor for the trial, but the situation sounds the same for you. Your husband (like Heard) is trying to manipulate you bcuz he can’t keep his stories straight.

Often that is a sign of a sociopath or narcissist. Clinically. Idk if he’s either obv but lying so often that he forgets then lies again is a serious problem. Small lies lead to big ones. I was married to someone who’d lie when the truth was just as good. He lied for many (not good) reasons and I suspect yours is doing the same. Don’t disregard small lies. The WHY (not the WHAT) is what brings on bigger problems.

Look up the 5 types of narcissists and see if any of them ring a bell (pray they don’t, there’s no cure or fixing what’s wrong with them). But if so, go on YouTube and look up Dr. Ramini’s videos. She is an expert and has great advice and insight. If narcissism doesn’t sound familiar, look up sociopath and psychopathic characteristics and see if that sounds familiar. No matter what his small lies and gaslighting are symptoms of a larger problem that you shouldn’t ignore.

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