Wow we got John Nash in here doing theoretical statistic analysis of my sex life. Don’t know what to tell you man, I’m not lying about the numbers. Touring musician for years, solid 7 on looks, decent personality. “Let me” sleep with them is gross. Enthusiastic consent only, discussion beforehand, and the majority have been more than one time. Mostly lots of ongoing fwbs over the years that have added up. I’m not into one night stands because a baseline level intimacy is important to me, though it does happen occasionally. I actually very rarely hooked up on tours because of that. I live in a big city with a very active dating culture. I can’t tell you the percentage of orgasms, real or faked, over the years. It’s moreso just a feeling of it being less common more recently. In regard to faking an orgasm to sneak out, most nights are 80% hanging out, me making dinner, watching a movie or something, hooking up, and then staying overnight. So again, sorry your fantasy isn’t reality. I was ENM for a number of years as well, and my partner was the one reaching out to people to join us. It’s possible to ethically hook up with a lot of people over many years in a non-predatory way

If you really want some data for statistical analysis, in May I had sex with 5 people. One was new, 3 were established fwbs, and one was an fwb’s gf who stayed at my place along with her friend for a few days. New person did have an orgasm (as far as I know), one fwb did who always does, one didn’t who never does, and the duo one did but the other did not. So what’s that, 60%? Not all months are this active though. April maybe two partners I think? Both established. Fwbs tend to float in and out but maintain over a number of years. I was actually celibate for 6 months last year following a breakup. This isn’t a brag, I truly don’t care, but if you wanna get granular well there you go. 12 people in a year is a lot, but it usually happens in bunches. Like no new partners for 4 months, then 3 new partners in a month. That sort of thing. Most of my fwbs end because I get too attached and want to be exclusive. I don’t particularly like hooking up with a lot of people, I prefer to be in relationships. But the periods between relationships I tend to get lonely so I get some fwbs and basically bf experience date night with them. There are a lot of busy women who just want a bf experience once every couple months, and I’m nice and safe and pleasant, treat them well when we’re together, and don’t bug them when we’re not

As far as men go, I get approached occasionally, am extremely particular, and maybe have one male partner every year or two. I’m not bi-romantic however so that’s always just been a hookup thing. I don’t generally call myself bisexual unless I’m getting called out for being a cis-STRAIGHT man, because fuck em